musicman2386 Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 There have been a lot of girls in my life...but not many like this one. In case you look at my profile I'm talking about the same girl I posted about in another thread. We've only known each other for a few months but when we're together we just get each other on like a deep level. All the other girls I have been with seem like just girls to pass the time and satisfy me (yes I'm a male and I have needs). This one is different though. I know I could be with her long term and be very happy. I don't know if I'm ready for it though, I'm scared. I also feel like since I'm in college I'd be missing out on ALL these girls and parties and stuff. Also, she goes to school like 6 hours away from me so I could transfer to be with her at her school, or she could transfer down here so we could be together. But it scares me like, what if I went through all this trouble to change my life and it didn't work out. Or what if I get tired of her (that tends to happen with me). Any advice would be appreaciated. Thanks.
quietintrovertgirl Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Love is about taking a change and loving a person unconditionally.Do you think that you can find another good woman later on in your life?Well if yes date other women well if you say no take a chance with this woman.
amaysngrace Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 We've only known each other for a few months but when we're together we just get each other on like a deep level. Why do you need to alter your life? Can't things be as they are until you know each other better? I'm not sure I'm understanding the sense of urgency here. Is it because you are too far apart from each other?
burning 4 revenge Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Never call anybody "the one". It sets you up for self-deception and it implies that you believe in fate.
Sand&Water Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 RE: You need to calm down. It is not your wedding day, yet. I don't know if I'm ready for it though, I'm scared. With this attitude, you will not succeed. Where is the man in you? IF you jump ahead of yourself, and start to plan out the future -the entire relationship will fall to the ground, I assure you. One day at a time. Sand&Water
aeren944 Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Honestly, I don't agree with anyone above. If you believe in fate, there's nothing wrong with that. If you plan out the future, it doesn't mean it's doomed to failure. Man, if you think you've found "the one", you should be happy, not scared. You feel like you need this person... like you are so much better with this person around? Much happier? Then be happy, not scared! Enjoy every moment, and try not to look too much into everything. Just enjoy eachother, and time will tell you whether you've found "the one" or not. Good luck!
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