Benji86 Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 hey all, tonight my ex sent me an instant message...we havent really talked for the past five months, and if we have she was the one to initiate the conversation, but she sent me an instant message saying that she received two text messages from my phone in the past few days, but i know for a fact that i didnt. She said that she received it from a number that is my old number, and the chance that that person that may have my old number would send her something seems rather out there. Anybody make anything of this?
gonetildecember Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 To me .. she's either using it as an excuse to talk to you... or it's just a huge coincidence lol.. but it looks liek she's attempting to initiate contact... but trying to maintain power.. by saying she was just returning ur message.
Author Benji86 Posted November 20, 2006 Author Posted November 20, 2006 yeah it would seem like a huge coincidence...but i highly doubt that it would happen like that. She has mentioned something about me "calling" from my old number, but i definantly have not touched my old phone since getting a new one and new number. Just seems rather odd. And this, combined with an anonymous person telling me to read a book about a woman who regrets calling things off with a love and wants them back, also seems rather suspicious ::sighs:: so much to process and think about haha
alphamale Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 who dumped whom? and don't gimme the "it was mutual" line...
Pyro Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 To me .. she's either using it as an excuse to talk to you... or it's just a huge coincidence lol.. but it looks liek she's attempting to initiate contact... but trying to maintain power.. by saying she was just returning ur message. I agree 100% with this.
Author Benji86 Posted November 20, 2006 Author Posted November 20, 2006 who dumped whom? and don't gimme the "it was mutual" line... oh no i wouldnt, it wasnt mutual at all. She dumped me and i was entirely against it. No reason to lie about that because that is how it happened
alphamale Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 oh no i wouldnt, it wasnt mutual at all. She dumped me and i was entirely against it. No reason to lie about that because that is how it happened if she is dating someone else then she's messing with your head. if she's not dating someone else she may be trying to hook back up with you. but be very wary either way. chicks love pulling this krap.
gonetildecember Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 And this, combined with an anonymous person telling me to read a book about a woman who regrets calling things off with a love and wants them back, also seems rather suspicious ::sighs:: so much to process and think about haha Please explain about this anonymous sender lol.... sounds like my stalker/anonymous message leaver..
Author Benji86 Posted November 20, 2006 Author Posted November 20, 2006 Please explain about this anonymous sender lol.... sounds like my stalker/anonymous message leaver.. lol, i have a myspace...and somebody left me a message saying to read the book persuasion by jane austen, which is about a woman and a man who are in love and planned on getting engaged, the woman calls it off, and turns out she still loves the guy and wants him back and they end up getting back together. I said that it really doesnt pertain to me because i was in the mindset that my ex wanted nothing to do with me, but this person said if you only knew what the book was about, and obviously...i do. i asked who it was, they responded by saying that i would see them at our high schools homecoming/thanksgiving day game, however i am not going to it because when i left high school i was done with that place. Shady huh?
Author Benji86 Posted November 20, 2006 Author Posted November 20, 2006 if she is dating someone else then she's messing with your head. if she's not dating someone else she may be trying to hook back up with you. but be very wary either way. chicks love pulling this krap. currently not seeing anyone, atleast not to my knowledge, so basically would mean nothing if i didnt know about another person haha
gonetildecember Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 lol, i have a myspace...and somebody left me a message saying to read the book persuasion by jane austen, which is about a woman and a man who are in love and planned on getting engaged, the woman calls it off, and turns out she still loves the guy and wants him back and they end up getting back together. I said that it really doesnt pertain to me because i was in the mindset that my ex wanted nothing to do with me, but this person said if you only knew what the book was about, and obviously...i do. i asked who it was, they responded by saying that i would see them at our high schools homecoming/thanksgiving day game, however i am not going to it because when i left high school i was done with that place. Shady huh? Lol... I was just watching a movie and they were talking about that book.. can't remember what it was tho.. but unless it was her or one of her friends... who else would really do that? As a female, I can say this- me.. along with many others i suspect, have done some pretty odd things to talk to someone or get someone back. Maybe she's scared to approach it or come out and say it because she doesn't know how you feel.. but both of those situations are a little to "coincidental to be a coincidence" lol.. in my opinion at least.
Author Benji86 Posted November 20, 2006 Author Posted November 20, 2006 Lol... I was just watching a movie and they were talking about that book.. can't remember what it was tho.. but unless it was her or one of her friends... who else would really do that? As a female, I can say this- me.. along with many others i suspect, have done some pretty odd things to talk to someone or get someone back. Maybe she's scared to approach it or come out and say it because she doesn't know how you feel.. but both of those situations are a little to "coincidental to be a coincidence" lol.. in my opinion at least. i do believe it was lakehouse? or something that had keanu reeves in it? lol anyways...it does seem too conincidental...i was thinking it would have to be her or one of her friends, because what random person would say that, and have no life to follow it up just to mess with my head lol. oh, and get this as well...she is online, goes away...of course i am curious so i check it. it says hanging out with jack and watching a movie. now, her roommates name is jackie, and i am guessing she calls her jack for short, but she also named a stuffed animal that i gave her jack as well...possibly used for double meaning? or am i just over analyzing things
gonetildecember Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 I'm guilty of over analysing a lot.. but with the few things that have happened recently.. it could be so.. Yeah! The Lakehouse lol good job with the ID To me it seems she's attempting to make a comeback- don't set your hopes too high- but things do look that way to me. Girls often talk to their friends.. I think it was her, myself... but it could be a friend of hers trying to tip the scales... u get what i mean? her friend knows she's beent thinking about you, so she's trying to help the situation out ..with anonymous messages
Author Benji86 Posted November 20, 2006 Author Posted November 20, 2006 i am just waiting to see if things develop. I am not going to force anything or bring things up and wait and see if she says something or continues with the things she is doing. Makes life interesting atleast haha
monkey00 Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 If you still got feelings give it a shot, if not then maybe you guys can be friends or not.
Author Benji86 Posted November 20, 2006 Author Posted November 20, 2006 If you still got feelings give it a shot, if not then maybe you guys can be friends or not. yeah i do still have feelings for her, i have since i first met her, and even after she broke up with me. I dont know if it is best for me to give it a shot. we have been together three times within the past five years, and knowing that she called things off...i am hesitant to say something. We havent really talked since the break up, she has usually initiated conversation for whatever reason not me. We are friends and all, but i would like it to be more. Had a strong feeling she might be the one but that got crushed for the time being
gonetildecember Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 i am just waiting to see if things develop. I am not going to force anything or bring things up and wait and see if she says something or continues with the things she is doing. Makes life interesting atleast haha I agree with you Benji.. it looks to me like she's testing you to see how you feel about things.. just wait a bit, what do u have to lose and see if any anonymous messages or accidental phone calls happen again.. leave things in her court.. if she's doing it intentionally then eventually you will know for sure, and if it is JUST a coincidence, at least you saved yourself some more heartache buddy! hope that helps..
Author Benji86 Posted November 20, 2006 Author Posted November 20, 2006 I agree with you Benji.. it looks to me like she's testing you to see how you feel about things.. just wait a bit, what do u have to lose and see if any anonymous messages or accidental phone calls happen again.. leave things in her court.. if she's doing it intentionally then eventually you will know for sure, and if it is JUST a coincidence, at least you saved yourself some more heartache buddy! hope that helps.. thanks so much =) you, as well as everybody offered great advice and i appreciate it greatly. If anything develops or happens, I'll be sure to let you all know.....just incase you wanted to know
gonetildecember Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 thanks so much =) you, as well as everybody offered great advice and i appreciate it greatly. If anything develops or happens, I'll be sure to let you all know.....just incase you wanted to know yeah for sure.. keep me updated.. id like to know how everything plays out
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