Guest Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Hey all. heres what i have, i met a guy 2 months ago, and he really threw me for a loop. I wont lie it really felt like the world just disappeared under my feet. After we talked and talked for hours on end, we ended up meeting quite frequently. Again with just talking. since then we've gone driving together and some things have happened, but for the most part he says he doesn't actually want to have sex, that he isn't ready. He was in a very bad relationship 3 years ago, where he took daily emotional and verbal abuse. he finally was able to leave the relationship and has had one since then. He was dating the new girl for 7 months, and wanted it to go a little further, and when he asked her to make it serious, she looked at him and said " this is just a ****" and that ended that. for about 4 months after that he went a little crazy and used women to get what he wanted. now i am interested, and he is interested, but says we shouldn't be together alone, as he "cant keep his hands off me." boy o boy that would be great. he says he isn't ready for something sexual, and i want to be there when he is, but i don't want to wait forever. so ive told him that i will be here when the time is right, within reason of course. and he says now he feels guilty about it. Am i wasting my time? he is really worth the wait, though he has low self esteem issues from the last two witches. I tell him he's great all the time, but he thinks that just weird...so what do i do?
rosecoloredglasses Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 i can see you wanting to be there when he is ready, but do you mean for the purely physical, or a relationship in general. He was hurt pretty bad it seems, and is weary, may be you are coming on too strong?
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