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So i met this hottt guy at a bar, we flirted he gave me his #.. I called we met up 2 weeks later at another bar, then i left we were supposed to meet up later, but i came home. He called 3 times... what should i do, how do i know if he;s only talking to me as a friend?? How do i get him to ask me out besides just to meet him at a bar?

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Why not suggest something different yourself? If he refuses, or balks at the idea you'll know he's only in it for the 'drinking buddy/hookup' angle.

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So i met this hottt guy at a bar, we flirted he gave me his #.. I called we met up 2 weeks later at another bar, then i left we were supposed to meet up later, but i came home. He called 3 times... what should i do, how do i know if he;s only talking to me as a friend?? How do i get him to ask me out besides just to meet him at a bar?

 

Next time, ask him out. Just keep getting to know him, throw in some flirting and you should get your answer than.

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So i met this hottt guy at a bar, we flirted he gave me his #.. I called we met up 2 weeks later at another bar, then i left we were supposed to meet up later, but i came home. He called 3 times... what should i do, how do i know if he;s only talking to me as a friend?? How do i get him to ask me out besides just to meet him at a bar?

 

So i wrote this... then my next question is if im not into asking him out... since im not even sure he likes me that way.. what do i do... im totally interested in him... not only as a friend..

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So i wrote this... then my next question is if im not into asking him out... since im not even sure he likes me that way.. what do i do... im totally interested in him... not only as a friend..

 

If you want a chance for him to get to know you and possibly start liking you back, you two need to hang out. How are you suppose to know if you don't want to ask him out? You can wait for him to ask you out, but like you said, he may only want to go to the bar, which is what you don't want.

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