Mydish1 Posted November 19, 2006 Posted November 19, 2006 It seems this is hitting me once again since my last post on it. But anyway in one of my college classes there's an english girl, I was always interested since the beginning of the term, and i think she was too. I've kind of been avoiding her since because I know she's going back to london at the end of December and I'd be setting myself up for failure by going after her. But me and her have this kind of trust/understanding with each other...So after yesterday I realized I missed that part of the emotional connection since my last relationship. I have a cool female friend, maybe it would be easier getting this off my chest with her as im sure she's been in many of these situations. But im not sure how she would respond if I opened this mushy side of me to her she's never seen before.
norajane Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 If you can share your loneliness with your friends, you'll feel less lonely. A friend isn't going to care if you reveal a mushy side. We're all human.
Author Mydish1 Posted November 20, 2006 Author Posted November 20, 2006 If you can share your loneliness with your friends, you'll feel less lonely. A friend isn't going to care if you reveal a mushy side. We're all human. Maybe you're right...everytime i see her she tells me she "doesnt have much friends"...i dont know what that implies, but ok...maybe its my turn to spill the beans. Nobody wants to be around depressing people, I can assure I'm not. But if i do do this, I dont want to come off with a similar vibe.
kymberann Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 Maybe she is implying that she wants to be yor friend! If it doesn't go beyond friend status, at least yo have made a new friend. Take it slow!
Author Mydish1 Posted November 27, 2006 Author Posted November 27, 2006 Maybe she is implying that she wants to be yor friend! If it doesn't go beyond friend status, at least yo have made a new friend. Take it slow! hm well we've kind of been friends on and off for thte past 4 years. If it isnt obvious by now that we're friends then i dont know what is. I've been contacting her more recently (almost weekly) to talk or at least try to hangout, she appears receptive to my calls. everytime the call ends she leaves an opening telling me to call her again. Friendship isnt one sided, she has the choice to call me up but almost never does.
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