sweetp7 Posted November 19, 2006 Posted November 19, 2006 I know you can't control who wants to be with you, but please hear my story. I dated a guy for 1 and 1/2 months. The last time I saw him things didn't feel as great as they could have been and I confronted him with it and he said that he didn't see us getting into a relationship. I never brought the word relationship up. He said he thought we were too different. That I wasn't spontaneous. I told him he was wrong - he is. He has asked me to do something on a whim and I went and I called him the same day to go out somewhere too. I didn't go only once. And I hesitated once. Also, he said that I had a wall up, but that had started to come down and came down even more by that weekend that he dumped me. I told him I had been cautious and scared of getting hurt. The time I saw him before that he said that he was afraid I was like one of his exgirlfriends, but then he said that was unfair to me because he didn't know me that well. I said yeah, don't prejudge me. I wonder if it all comes down to that exgirlfriend and him assuming I'm going to be like her. I don't know why he wouldn't just get to know me more. I thought we were great for each other. I just can't believe he feels differently. I am dumbfounded. I pray that he changes his mind, but I know my luck isn't that good.
Guest Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Sounds like he is not over his last girlfriend and probably cannot move on. If he calls you tell him that he needs to go back to her to resolve whatever remaining issues are still bothering him. And that you are moving on to someone who will see having a relationship with you, because this guy is just not that into you. Just walk away and keep looking.
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