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So, i've met this girl who i have everything in common with, hell we even finish eachothers sentences. We had sex the first time we ever met, and now we have went on 2 dates and chilled once over a 3 week period, while talking on the phone in between. Everytime we meet we laugh and have a great time, my problem is i really engage every conversation we have, and almost every phone call. She has called me once and set up to hang out once so far out of the 3 times and bunch of times we've talked on the phone. Now from what i read this is because she is shy and wants the guy to lead things so she is testing me to see how committed i am. Which i respond to by calling her and seeing how shes doing every 1 or 2 days and hanging out with her on the weekends to show that i still care but due to work/school its hard to get her and me time. We've already talked about that we want to take things slow because we are both coming out of shi'ty relationships, and that we are officially a couple and stuff. I've yet to pull the can we be us instead of me and you routine on her im waiting to see this week if she will call me, cause the last time we met i sorta left the ball in her court by telling her to give me a call. Which was probably a bad move on my part. But anyway, ladies: is this girl testing me to see what my interests in a relationship are becasue we hooked up on the first meeting? Or is she unsure about getting into a relationship again so she is maybe leaving the back door open in case things don't work out? (Which would be strange becasue we do have so much in common and every date has ended with a passionate kiss and we hold hangs and the couple type stuff)

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Title is suppose to start with Help, but for some reason it got edited out. Any thoughts about this girls intentions? I told her to call me and im just gunna wait it out this week, see if she wonders why i haven't called and calls me.

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