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hi im new to this to bare with me, been with my g/f for four years and we are both young, early 20's. we have had our ups and downs, a lot of short downs because of me. This girl has done so much for me and would bendover backwards for me if I asked her to. Besides the occasional up's and down's our relationship has been great, when we are not busy with work or school we spend our time with each other, not friends.

 

Now we recently broke up 5 months ago, this was our all-time down point, she was unsure of US. we took a 2 month break from each-other but it wasn't even really a break, we just saw each other not as much, the physical and emotional contact was still in place. When reconciled and decided to give everything another shot, everything was good, but ever since we have got back together 5 months ago, I have this unsettled feeling that won't go away, I can't explain it.

 

I feel like shes up to something or hiding something. I had a talk with her and she assures me that nothing is up and everything is ok. Sometimes its very hard to get information out of her, sometimes I have to crack her head open for her to tell me whats wrong. I highly doubt she would be cheating on me, but lately she has been talking to a couple of guy friends that im not familiar with from her school, one of them has a G./F, so not much concern. I snooped through her phone and she was texting this one guy and said, "whats up with you, you've been acting weird lately" WHO CARES, "can I call you?" IDK it just didn't look right.

 

IDK theres about 4 new numbers in her phone that are guys I don't know, I don't have any evidence against her. MY question is what are some ways to get some INTEL on whats going on w/o alerting her? We are both very busy during the week, we both attend school M-F and work, the only time we really get to spend time with each other is on the weekends, the only way she could be up to something is at school.

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