Guest Posted November 19, 2006 Posted November 19, 2006 that when people post in here they usually talk about what the 'other' did in a relationship? it would be nice to see a more balanced approach but i understand that is asking way too much. because if that was the case wouldn't it be better off just taking to the flipping other person? i spent a couple of weeks in various forums and it seems the same people bounce back and forth. whatever happened to actually picking up the phone people. here - i'll show u how easy it is - me: screwed up a 9 year deal, i got tricked out on the junk, and by the end of it, planned on the wedding and all, but she bolted, clammed up and thinks i am a threat! please! i give a prezzie and she freaks! it doesn't matter because same deal happened again only quicker. i have learned to watch the accounts, health, home and now have a really clear idea on what makes it work and when someone cuts out at the first sign of trouble and plays the victim - well, look in the mirror ms. its easy to talk cheap when hiding. she didn't care so neither do i and the stuff after that is hollywood gossip with a floral twist. so, i ditched the comp, got the lawyers and doctors on side and meet someone that actually talks in person! no waaaaaaaaaaaaay! lol its moving time and all the paperwork and guesswork is done. try talking with yer loved ones people instead of taking shots [like i am now - opppsy] from the internet cheapseats.
lizzielou Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 yeah sometimes people need to just confront "the other person", but other times people need to vent or bounce their ideas off of people. sometimes i don't know if i'm being out of line so it helps to ask someone else, anonymously i might add.
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