Guest Posted November 18, 2006 Posted November 18, 2006 I met this guy in one of my uni courses this year, and for a group project we exchanged e-mails. We've been chatting online for maybe two weeks now. My problem is, because we're still really only acquaintances I can't really judge whether or not he's into me. I don't even know if he's single. He always makes a point of talking to me in class with a big bright smile, and we have great conversation on line, the problem is I'm the one who's always initiating it, I'd say probably like 7/10 times. Once the ball is rolling everything is fine though. A couple nights ago while we were talking he said I should come to one of his games the next night, and at the end of the conversation he told me to come again and to bring my friends to cheer him on. But we never had a chance to talk after that.... what do you guys think. Is he into me? Is it worth taking the big step and letting him know I'm into him?
Guest Posted November 19, 2006 Posted November 19, 2006 I met this guy in one of my uni courses this year, and for a group project we exchanged e-mails. We've been chatting online for maybe two weeks now. My problem is, because we're still really only acquaintances I can't really judge whether or not he's into me. I don't even know if he's single. He always makes a point of talking to me in class with a big bright smile, and we have great conversation on line, the problem is I'm the one who's always initiating it, I'd say probably like 7/10 times. Once the ball is rolling everything is fine though. A couple nights ago while we were talking he said I should come to one of his games the next night, and at the end of the conversation he told me to come again and to bring my friends to cheer him on. But we never had a chance to talk after that.... what do you guys think. Is he into me? Is it worth taking the big step and letting him know I'm into him? I'd say yes. It looks like he is interested in you. Maybe he doesn't know if YOU are single or not . Anyway, my advice is, don't be the one who confesses it to him. He is the man, he is the one who should make the real first move. If you make the first move, he will probably not respect you very much. I know men work in weird ways (I am a man, btw). Try to be nice to him. Make it easier for him to ask you out, but don't make any direct moves towards it. If he is really interested, it will become easier and easier for him to actually ask you out. I am replying to this because I had a similar situation. I was talking to this girl in class, asked her out and she turned out to be not single! So, I can understand how your guy feels
lizzielou Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 Maybe you can put the "ball in his court" by making a casual invitation to one of your events? Ask him if he wants to join you and some friends for a movie. It shows that you're reciprocating the feelings of wanting to hang out. Plus maybe he'll get the hint that you're single or you'll figure out if he's taken if he says something like "mind if I bring my girlfriend?" Btw, if he had a girlfriend, shouldn't SHE be at his game??
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