Lavargian Posted November 18, 2006 Posted November 18, 2006 There is this girl in my intro to University Life 101 class. I noticed her a couple of week into the class, but I said nah that would never happen. That right there is what my problem is. I always talk my self out of talking to a girl. I have never been with a girl before BTW, and I am 18. This girl is different though. See I sit right behind her in class, and one day I noticed her flipping her hair around and playing with it alot, and she also kept turning her head about 90 degrees I think to make it look like she might be looking out the window, but her eyes seem to be straining to see what's behind her! The samething happened when he had to split into groups and she was across the room. She would flip her hair, and her eyes would dart to me really quickly! Sorry for the long post but this is the cherry on top right here. There was a lady in class giving a presentation on dating jerks and jerkettes, and when she asked who ever in the class is in a realtionship right now raise you hand. She didn't and I was like no way THAT'S AWESOME!!! Then, when everyone still had their hand raised......she flipped her hair again, and looked behind her with that strained preferal vision, and from there on I was like **** YEAH. So, since I am not a very smooth talker I was wondering if anyone here could tell me some things I could say to her. I have somethings in mind like it seems like she doesn't smill much. I mean one time during that jerk/jerkette presentation the whole class was laughing over something, and I remember her barely cracking a smile. So, maybe I can just say hi I'm kevin. Then hopefully she tells me her name, and then me follow up with I'll bet that you have one beautifull smile? Anyone think this could work? I'll take other suggestions too.
Jeep81Guy Posted November 18, 2006 Posted November 18, 2006 That's not bad, but you don't know what type of girl you're dealing with. You really should just be yourself. I completely understand what you're going through. Nobody would have know it (even my friends), but I was a pretty big chicken when it came to women that I had the hots for. What you really need to do is become friends with her. Don't immediately give her a pickup line and ask her out. It could be a really awkward date if you've never really talked before. Telling her she has a pretty smile kind've randomly might be kinda weird, even if you mean it. Talk to her asap. Ask her something about class or anything. Find a reason to talk to her. After you've talked to her and kind've know her, then, if she smiles at you, you can tell her "you've got a really nice smile." Believe me, there is no need to rush the asking out part before you start to get to know her.
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