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im not a normal guy... I have been told this often... i Still do the old time stuff. Like open the door for the girl, pull out her seat, compliment her outfit, and treat her with the respect that she deserves... it may look like im a punk or sound like a "Homo" to some of the men out there but i don't really believe is SEX for no reason... I think its a special thing... and some guys may say that 'im putting the pussy on a pedestal' (pardon my language) but i dont think its like that... I have had the opportunity... i mean i have had girl friends and stuff like that and they wanted sex... have done stuff... (oral and other stuff) but never want to go the full with a girl i didn't feel ALOT alot for...and they broke up with me cuz of it... and i found a girl and i didn't tell her about it... i didnt tell her until last night...we are in the heat of the moment and she whispers in my ear... "do u have a condom?" and i say "yes" but I got pretty nervous... i guess about performance or that it was finally gonna happen but i couldn't preform at all if u know what i mean... but then i told her about it... and i guess she understood...and she didn't make it a big deal...i never had this problem before... but really i was never in this situation before... i mean what do i do? how do stop the nervousness? and feedback would be nice... plz

 

 

M.J.B.

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I give you credit for sticking with your beliefs when there is so much pressure from society for young men to behave otherwise. If you feel she's the one you're ready to go to the next level with then I think it'd make you feel more comfortable if you sat down and told her how you feel about all this and your thoughts on waiting for the right person. If you do believe she is the right person she'll take this well and you'll have pleanty of time to work out your issues of feeling nervous while being intimate. Patience and understanding is key for both of you when discussing this. Start slow with the intimate things and work your way up to sex. This way you will give each other a chance to explore your wants and desires and you'll feel more secure with each other. Don't be afraid to make mistakes because it never turns out to be like it is in the movies. Just be honest and open with her and let her know how you feel about everything and you'll have nothing to hide. If she truly loves you she'll understand and work with you on this. Good luck.

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I started to say "normal...what's normal", but more than you actually being normal you're a GENTLEMAN, with morals! Nothing wrong with that! :D I think you excite yourself so much that you make yourself anxious when it's time to perform. Take it slow, enjoy the moment. If a woman is rushing you to be intimate she's prolly done it with plenty others. Toss her out and spend time with someone that can appreciate a patient man. ;)

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