Guest Posted November 18, 2006 Posted November 18, 2006 Guys, something happened with me and I was wondering whether any of you can help me interpret it---it is always good to get one than one perspective. My ex and I broke up 2.5 years ago. The only reason we did was because of distance; we were very much in love. It was her request, and I honored it. It was very hard for us to be "just friends." she send me an email two years after all of this. We just exchange a couple small talk emails. I run into her 8 months later. My friend who was there told me he felt this girl really likes me from the way she was behaving. i told him she was my ex. A week later she sent me a long email asking me about details of my life, and also telling me about her life and what she is up to. I wonder if it is possible that some one would still have feelings for someone more than two years of NC. Does it sound like it in this situation?
Guest Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 Hi guys, I am still waiting from some feedback. I would like to hear what other people think so that I can proceed from here. Thanks.
D-Lish Posted November 24, 2006 Posted November 24, 2006 did you answer her e-mail? If you want to re-initiate some sort of relationship, why not start with trading friendly e-mails. Then progress to a meeting if it's possible. You'll never know what she is truly thinking unless you ask. Just ask her if she misses you! And if you're feeling daring, tell her you miss her. You can do that without putting your heart on the line.... just by saying "hey, it's good to hear from you, I miss chatting!" Nothing wrong with being honest... or asking questions. D
Guest Posted November 25, 2006 Posted November 25, 2006 ---did you answer her e-mail? Thanks D-lish for the response. Yes I did respond to her email. I seemed a little reserved, though. I only answered her questions and did not ask any about her(she was asking what I was going to do next year, whom I will be working with, what kinds of things I will be studying, etc.). My email was definitely friendly, but I intentionlly acted reserved. Why? Because a while ago she sent me an email, and I was so excited so I answered her immediately with a long email telling her all that was up with me. She seemed very reserved after that then she stopped writing. did you answer her e-mail? If you want to re-initiate some sort of relationship, why not start with trading friendly e-mails. Then progress to a meeting if it's possible. You'll never know what she is truly thinking unless you ask. Just ask her if she misses you! And if you're feeling daring, tell her you miss her. You can do that without putting your heart on the line.... just by saying "hey, it's good to hear from you, I miss chatting!" Nothing wrong with being honest... or asking questions. D
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