whocaresaboutlife Posted November 18, 2006 Posted November 18, 2006 It's simple... I like her... She doesn't like me I cant stop thinking about her and i want to be with her SO bad... The worst part about it is she says shes qoute.. "Saving me from her"
Antheia Posted November 18, 2006 Posted November 18, 2006 She doesn't want you dude. "It's not you it's me", or it's for your own good is the oldest excuse in the book.
Jane Doe Posted November 18, 2006 Posted November 18, 2006 I agree. Move on. You can't make someone like you.
MikeC Posted November 18, 2006 Posted November 18, 2006 Find other things to think about. If you see a dead end sign, it probably means there is a dead end ahead.
Nina_Squaretyz Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 find a rebound person to like and that'll get your mind off this girl. if you're lucky, you might actually end up liking this rebound person and something will develop there. atleast thats what im trying to do except it'll be a guy lol
typical Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 How do you know she doesnt like you? Did you specifically ask her, or were you just assuming that because she said that she was saving you from her?? I have said this exact thing before, and trust me, it definately wasnt because I didnt like the guy...It was because in a sense, I really thought that I really was saving the poor guy from cleaning up the mess I made of myself and my life. I didnt want to drag him into my life, and have him deal with all the problems I had. I just saw him as normal, and happy and I didnt want to disrupt that specialness inside of him. I thought to myself "let him enjoy himself, for a little while longer. If he is going to ever suffer in his life, I dont want it to be at my hands" The truth is....I wanted him sooo bad. I really did. I adored him, but as much as I wished that we could be together, I didnt wish all the heartache I knew I could cause. There was something special about him. You could just tell (even if you didnt know him at all) that he really was untouched and removed from all the pain and suffering I have had to endure in my life. With me and my problems, he wouldnt have lasted a second. He was too sensitive for the brutalness of who I was. I would have destroyed his spirit with my jealousy. Any sense of independence would have drowned with my tendency to become so absorbed with our love to the point of obsession. But then again, love never looked good on me anyway.
Love Hurts Posted December 19, 2006 Posted December 19, 2006 It's simple... I like her... She doesn't like me I cant stop thinking about her and i want to be with her SO bad... The worst part about it is she says shes qoute.. "Saving me from her" Quick story… He loved her when they were teens… she only liked him …. and went her own way….she married a man she met on her job and had family of her own. He always kept track of her life through friends or he would bump into her in the street. Hi how’s life? The usual superficial verbiage would exchange… She eventually divorced….and thirty years from the day they first met… the impossible love was launched and they got married. I don’t intend to give false hope……… most importantly Get on with your Life or you will loose your mind over this one…… buttttt if you live long enough anything can happen……….only just live. PS...I wish I could say they lived happily ever after...they didnt make the one year mark...and are in the process of getting a divorce. Imagine that........thirty years of desire and it still didnt work out. What a shame. Live it.
JCD Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 But at least they have a conclusion unlike OP. I agree, move on with your life.
Guest Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 But at least they have a conclusion unlike OP. I agree, move on with your life. "It was because in a sense, I really thought that I really was saving the poor guy from cleaning up the mess I made of myself and my life. I didnt want to drag him into my life, and have him deal with all the problems I had. I just saw him as normal, and happy and I didnt want to disrupt that specialness inside of him. I thought to myself "let him enjoy himself, for a little while longer. If he is going to ever suffer in his life, I dont want it to be at my hands" I HAVE BEEN TOLD THIS MANY TIMES AND IN MANY WAYS AND IT IS NOT FAIR FOR SOMEONE TO MAKE A DECISION THAT BELONGS TO ANOTHER. THAT IS HURTFUL AND THE DENIAL OF WHAT YOU MEAN TO ANOTHER AND HOW CAN YOU BE SO CERTAIN THAT TOGETHER U BOTH COULD MOVE MOUNTAINS. EVERYDAY I WAKE UP WITH THE KNOWLEDGE THAT IF I HAD NOT SCREWED UP, I WOULD NOT BE DEALING WITH THIS RIGHT NOW - FIGHTING FOR SOMEONE I VALUE. I HATE THAT A MOMENT OF WEAKNESS TAKES SO LONG TO CORRECT AND REPAIR.
stillafool Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 I've said that to guys when I wasn't interested buy wanted to be kind. IMO, move on, she isn't interested in you in the way you want her to be. How to stop thinking of her? Well you can start by dating other people and keep yourself very busy. If you are still trying to be friends with her, cut that out and go no contact. Trust me, it will make it much easier not to see her or talk to her. Good Luck in finding someone who will love you back. She's out there waiting.
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