magichands Posted November 18, 2006 Posted November 18, 2006 If only he was gay. Oh well. Hopefully this is happy ever after!!
FataMorgana Posted November 18, 2006 Posted November 18, 2006 Wow Pseudofemme! Picture is coming. I just can't seem to find somewhere to host it. can always put it up as part of your profile. common we are all dying to see Mr perfect My other half is still perfect after 5 1/2 years. I remember when I first met him I kept saying to myself cannot be true, no way can someone wake up every morning and smile and be happy and kind and so loving, all the time!!!! well, it is possible, still trying to comprehend. You know, that sort of person that you take out and whereever you take them, whoever meets him they all adore him, always! ...not saying that there are some things he does that do annoy me (which did come out after years of living together), but still see the mr perfect in him
DanielMadr Posted November 19, 2006 Posted November 19, 2006 Thanks. NOw I finally know why girls feel so insecure around me. I should have acquired a scar.
Author Pink Amulet Posted November 19, 2006 Author Posted November 19, 2006 but still see the mr perfect in him Maybe that is it- maybe he is just perfect to me. It is so unbelievable that this man seems MADE for me, that I am petrified I am not going to be good enough for him. http://img134.imageshack.us/img134/4038/ryan2yi3.png Maybe he isn't everyones idea of perfection aesthetically but he is tall too (my #1 physical must) at 6"6 But more than anything, the way he talks to me, and looks at me is just undescribebly sexy.
Guest Posted November 19, 2006 Posted November 19, 2006 It's always interesting to see the people that people think are absolutely gorgeous - it just goes to show how everybody be thought beautiful by somebody. I'm not putting him down - just saying he'd not be my taste at all.
magichands Posted November 19, 2006 Posted November 19, 2006 I'm not putting him down - just saying he'd not be my taste at all. Wait until you've been a bad, bad girl.
Author Pink Amulet Posted November 20, 2006 Author Posted November 20, 2006 LOL hahaha Magichands You crack me up. Who is this guest posting everywhere now? Reveal yourself masked LSer!!!
chill chic Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 I am dating a man. A perfect specimen of a man. He is just about the most strikingly handsome man I have ever seen. He is well educated, intelligent, worldy, kind, giving, has a great sense of humour and is a wonderful lover. So why am I not happy with him?!!? When things are going too well do we long for drama? Or is it when someone seems so flawless they make us uncomfortable? I now know I deserve a great guy but I always feel like I am not good enough for him! I feel like everything we do is something out of hollywood- there is this sense of "airbrushed" relations between us. It is almost like we are acting in some movie about a perfect couple. Am I being ridiculous? Help me LSers! Pink Amulet- I can relate to your situation, although for me, it's the opposite. Well as far as the "flawless" part, I never showed this guy my weakness, he kinda opened up in little ways, but I think I made him uncomfortable. And it actually seemed to push him away from me. Now I'm ready to reveal something to him that he's never known about me, we'll see how it goes. But yah we were in that "hollywood-airbrushed" phase, and I don't think it helped in the end, as far as us being real to each other, and it actually hurt it in some ways. So it's best to be open & honest, and if the guy cares & loves you, he should embrace you having cancer. At first he might shy away because he wouldn't know how to handle the situation, (some guys do that) but once he talks to you more about the situation, the more he'll learn how to handle it with you. Then eventually he'll gain trust from you, that you were strong enough to open up, and he'll do the same. Good Luck and take care
lovestruck234 Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Sorry to barge in....only just found this thread just now.... He's a hot copper....you're a hot model...what would make you think you're not good enough for him??? You're hot, he's hot....it'll work out fine. Lol, only kidding. I know there's more depth needed than that. The more you hide your own density and true colours and act like "the perfect woman", the more I would see him getting bored of that. He's a human too remember, he wants to be with another human, much like himself. You will find he is most likely hiding alot of HIS flaws too, as much as you don't see it yet. You will. It's only the 2 month mark. Geeeez, it's only the beginning!! Maybe stop forcing this relationship to mould into something you want it to be, and sorta let it happen for now....on it's own... Forcing things to happen as far as "love" and all that goes, it never really works. Whereas it blossoming on it's own, like a rose, THAT, my friend, is when the warts n all come out. Cos you see that person for who they are. You truly "love" them for who they are. And I reckon that feeling rocks.
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