disarm_1 Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 I've been with my girlfriend for 4 months. Of all places we met on myspace. We had mutual friends and after months of messaging each other back and forth we decided to have lunch and have been insperatable since. We both talk about how it's kind of embarrassing to have met online. It's something both of us were scared to tell our friends. She thinks it was all just a big comincedence that we met that way. The thing is that it really wasn't. I saw her profile one day and was absolutley blown away. She was gorgeous. After reading her profile I wanted to get to know her. I didn't want to just message her and start asking questions and try to ask her out. She'd probably think I was a stalker. So what I did was just begin to comment to her bulletins everynow and then, cracking jokes and what not. This went along for months. Slowly our messages would get longer and longer. We got along real good. We'd tease each other. Talk about serious issues. Finally it culmintated with lunch. So my question is: Should I tell her that us meeting wasn't just a big coincedence> Instead it was something that I really was hoping for, and that I was taken by her from the minute I stumbled across her profile? The thing is that i don't want her thinking I'm some creepy guy that was stalking her online. Our relationship has been pretty close to perfect so far. I don't want to mess this up. What should I do?
hindsfeet Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 just be straight man. you saw. you liked. you had to get to know her. nothing with her. your not a stalker. stalkers would follow and watch from a distance. and be all creepy. you got to know by getting in the door and working it in. she prob knows this already. congrats on the connection.
joanie0422 Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 why rock the boat...is it so important to tell this..its only an opinion you have..things are great...leave it alone...and meeting on line is not a bad thing...i met a great guy just recently...so enjoy your time...
Guest Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 it was by coincidence that you saw her profile and that she was gorgeous and caught your eye. Its more on how you see it. If you only wants her for her body then yeah, thats not good. But if you are in a relationship with her, then congrats buddy, you have turned your coincidence into something more.
theadventure50120 Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 You didn't meet online , you met where you had lunch That's what you tell your friends.
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