Guest Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 Hi All, I split from my girlfriend 2 months ago, i was so good to her always taking her on holidays, dinner dates etc, we lived together for nearly a year, she was moody, touchy, but she was a bit of a party girl always wanting to go out with her pals, rather than spend time with me, she was so selfish, always putting me in no win situations, i was always a mans man, with bag loads of confidence, she knocked so much of it out of me, but i do still love her, i think the reason she is like this is she is a real stunner i mean model material, i feel quite bad now cos i kind of got my revenge this morning... I called her and asked how she was friendly chat then i hit her with a bombshell, i said that my new girlfriend and two of her pals were going to a nightclub Friday that my ex regulary goes, and i said that obviously we are over each over now, but thought it was polite to let her know rather than just seeing me in there, i made it sound so sincere and she believed me, i changed the conversation and she said, is it Stacey a female friend of mine, i said of course not!! who is she? i said no one you know, then i changed the topic again, 1 minute later she said, do i know her?, i said of course not!, and i proceeded to change the conversation again, and we kept talking about what we had been upto then she said where did you meet her? i said just out and about, she then proceeded to ask the area she lives, she got so jealous i was shocked!! really didnt expect that from her!, but then we just carried on talking and i made my excuses that i had to go & wished her well. I am seeing someone but its not serious, but cant stop thinking about her, and i do want her back. I know this may have been a cruel thing to do but she was so selfish with me, it kind of made me have the last laugh.
Spinderella Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 You dont sound as though you are laughing to me. Did you explain to her how you felt when you were with her? Did you or she end it? What were the reasons it ended?
amaysngrace Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 I think it was really awful of you and you should feel bad inside. You were deceptive and cruel. Two 'wrongs' never make a 'right'.
rina_r Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 Yep, what goes around, comes around. It was immature too, though you sound like you are rather young.
josy Posted November 17, 2006 Posted November 17, 2006 Although you did not mention it, I assume that she broke up with you. You did mention that she hindered your confidence, and had made you feel uncomfortable in certain situations. Assuming you ended up hurt from the relationship, one may understand the desire for revenge, although most will argue that you should, or at least ought to, keep away from revenge. But then again, "Revenge is sweet and not fattening" (Hitchcock). Summary: I dig you, man.
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