Guest Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 I'm confused with this relationship thing. I've only been in two serious relationship, and the first one was not a good one at all. I keep thinking that I will get hurt again. My B/F sister says she don't have a problem w/me, but she hates my attitude, and I've never given her an attitude in the meantime she's given me plenty of them, but I refuse to argue w/her b/c she's only 16 or 17, and I'm in my late twenties, I don't have time for kids game. He tells me I aggravate him, but when I ask him what I do to aggravate him and says he think right now so he doesn't tell me. How am I supposed to fix my problems if he doesn't tell me what I have to fix. I know I'm jealous, but according to him he's cheated on all all or at least almost all the girls he dated before so I understand why I'm jealous and have a hard time trusting him, but he doesn't understand. When I explain things he takes it the wrong way and doesn't understand me at all. I don't know how to express myself, or how to even start talking to him anymore. I feel like we are falling apart, but he says we are not. I also need to get better at communicating with him, but sometimes I feel like we are just dating and we are not friends that I just can't find myself going up to him to talk to him. How can I open up, and fix my problems with out him helping me.
fatty Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 Really unique situation. Have you ever tried to just sit down and have a casual talk with him. If he has cheated on other women in the past ask him why has he? I think that should signal you to leave the relationship. If you want to resolve certain issues, just trying talking to him as you would with a freind. Jokes, some funny topics and hints of the real issues. I would have trust issues as well, with his past but if he hasnt done anything to indicate he is doing the same thing now, then don't worry.
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