amgine Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 well not really, its more non existent Not been terribly lucky guess part of it is done to me. Feel for the MM getting over him have my lapses but do feel i'm moving forward away from him. Fancied someone he works with but think thats a non starter. Feel fine if i'm out with friends or at work but come home and i hit a low point. Do want to find that someone special without looking desperate. Guess i should relax and forget about these men. I work with mainly women and work evenings so don't get a chance to meet new men, then i find that i usually like someone after i've gotten to know them its always happened that way So looking for advice what to do starting to feel i'm too old at 38 to find that someone. Keep reading how guys are reluctant to have relationships with the 40 something woman sorry i'm rambling but its gone 3:30am and i'm tired. I should go to bed. You know before i met this MM i wasn't bothered about meeting someone, maybe that was the reason i met him who knows. All i know its not him.
alyekmarion Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 Luv,life is not a bed of roses thus relationships don't come easy. Your situation with MM and his colleage is understandable but way off base. Knowing that you work in the evenings doesn't stop you from meeting new people. Like me, i attend lectures in the evenings but still make time to meet friends and get to meet new people. You seem a lady who doesn't go out very much but if invited to parties, go so that you meet people, learn how to relate to them. Its a learning process honey. Give it time and stop thinking you are too old. Think positive and the right guy may come along.[/Age is just a number. Don't worry.]
Author amgine Posted November 16, 2006 Author Posted November 16, 2006 Thanks for your reply Yes its probably true that i don't go out much but i'm trying to rectify that
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