syrx Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 Ok I liked this girl for about three months she busted up with her boyfriend recently. I tried to get with her but she did not like me the way I liked her. I said to her I don't need anymore friends I got enough. She got pissed at me me. The next day I missed being her friend so I told her I needed time to get my feelings out of the way for her. She said ok I will give you all the time you need but my friendship might not be here when you get back. I said ok now I want to be her friend but she wont talk to me. What should I do?
lizzielou Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 You lost her trust and really hurt her feelings when you told her you just wanted to date her, not be her friend. Maybe you should think through all of this and learn to respect her and your friendship with her. Then write her a letter (or email), apologizing and asking to start your friendship over. Be honest with her and respect her feelings.
Guest Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 If she is selfish enough to not even allow you the time you need to get over her then i doubt she's worth your time.
CardPlay3r Posted November 30, 2006 Posted November 30, 2006 Don't think she is selfish, she was probably hurt thinking you were only looking at her as someone to sleep with... I think you should send her an e-mail apologizing and telling her you really care about her, and would love being her friend but phrased it wrong when you said it...and you need time to get over your romantic feelings for her so you can be her platonic friend without awkwardness
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