laRubiaBonita Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 i cannot get over the fact that i am, at times, "the token girlfriend". i am loosely seeing a guy now, my friend that i have known for years.... but i feel i am the "token girl"... even though i DO NOT want to be any type of "girlfriend" at this point. the part that bugs the crap outta me is this idiolism i feel projected upon me. me, the girl with the lowest felt selfworth EVER, although one may not see it.... it makes me cringe. it is what i have never seen in myself, what i would rather NOT see in myself, i would rather feel worthless, at least there are no expectations then.
Green Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 Ur not a token gf... Sounds like you just feel that way but you gave no concrete examples of why hes treated u that way.
LakesideDream Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 I don't get it. You are in a loose "casual" dating relationship, you don't want any committments, and the guy you are dating treats you great (Idolization was your word). You don't appreciate and don't enjoy all of the above, yet you feel free to waste this Prince's time? There are people in the world with actual problem they are trying to cope with. You are addicted to drama. Get over it, and get over yourself !
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