Guest Posted November 15, 2006 Posted November 15, 2006 I found out on Nov 18, 2005 that he was cheating on me for this first time in 12years and we just has our first son who is now 19 months old. I have to confesse and say I did tell him to have a girlfriend, but I did not think he could fall in love with her. I thought we were meant to be. Little did I know that he did not love me anymore or ever or when he stopped?!? I do not know exactly how he fell out of love with me but he resents me so much that it is hard to even face him still. I never knew a person can change so much or I guess I was blinded by love my friends tell me he was always this way i just never saw it. I fell in love with a man who was a constant liar. He lied to see how far people would belive him, it was quite silly and I knew he was lieing but I made him believe that it was the truth since it made him so happy to tell this story. I told him to get a girlfriend, I was quite depressed after I has my son and I did not want him to be unhappy sexually so I told him to get a girlfriend. He was my best friend and now we do not speak at all. He promised me and my son that he will go without so we would not suffer, I belived him. He never Lied to me about anything important as far as I knew until now. He is a great father but he thinks he doesn't need to talk to me about our son and he is only 19 months old. I just found a place where they help called co-parenting and i am going to force him to go, my son should not have to suffer any lose. Hopefully a year from now I will look back and have most of these scares healed.
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