Guest Posted November 15, 2006 Posted November 15, 2006 was with my guy for just a few months. he has always acted kinda commitment phobic but was faithful and affectionate, kind and attentive in general. then out of nowhere he springs the 'do you want serious or just fun?' conversation. i could see where this little chat was gonna end up so i ended it. did the n/c thing and after 2 weeks get a phone call outta the blue, had a nice chat and rung off (i got my hopes up). over the next couple days more calls and txts but all were centred around getting together (physically). eventually managed to drag outta him that he is chasing someone else (doesn't appear to have it in the bag) and would like me to be to his 'friend with benefits'. now back to n/c. What to do? feel very hurt, angry and jaded. any advice would be appreciated.
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