sweet_N_Low Posted November 15, 2006 Posted November 15, 2006 MY bf of almost a yr broke up w/ me a week & a half ago...we were both vey much in love but we were aguing eveyday and he was getting very stressed out..CAN SOMEONE WHO GENUINELY LOVES YOU REALLY LET YOU GO? I have been in enough relationships to know when the person really loves you..its about actions not words. I think we broke up because we werent giving eachother enough space. But I am having a hard time wondering why e would let me go? I was thiinking of waitting like a month to give him time to himself and to think etc & then I'll mail him a letter. I just want to tell himIm sorry for my part in the breakup & that I miss him & I do wanthim back but its ultimately up to him..IM SCARED of writtng this because I dont know what the response will be but I need him to know hes cared 4 even if we dont get back together. ANYTHING ELSE I SHOULD ADD? I know he used 2 love getting letters from me so Id rather mail him then try to call. I really miss him, and feel like crap for being so mean to him. I dont know how to let go & Im feeling very HOPELESS. What if he was my soulmate and I lost him? Ive been trying to keep busy, volunteer, go to the gym, treat myself but NONE of that seems 2 be working. ANY IDEAS? I feel so hopeless..
D-Lish Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 sweet'n'low... I had the same situation with my bf. We went out for a year and then broke up because my irritability was out of control. I too came to have regrets about how I acted and wanted a second chance. It's been three months and he still won't speak to me. I did send him some e-mails and talked to him once in person when he came to pick up his things. I did apologize to him, and it didn't bring us back together~ but I felt better afterward. Let him cool off for a while. It's a good idea to apologize for your part no matter what the outcome. It will make you both feel better about things. I'm from Hamilton too... could it be something in the water?
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