Guest101 Posted November 15, 2006 Posted November 15, 2006 sorry if you get confused, i have alot of stuff i wana say. ok ive been in a LDR for over a year, but the thing is ive never met her, which i think is sillly. we talk nearly everyday online so we stay in touch but i want to meet up but it seems like when ever i ask, she makes a excuse, like i said do you wana come to my friends party in december (because then she can stay the night and wont have to travel back home at night) but she says her mum wouldnt let her, but i dont see how hard it is to lie (i know lieing bad but still). ive asked to come she her but she just says theres nothing to do were she lives, then i tell her that i dont care at least id be with you, but then we just slowly change to talking about something else. she only lives a hour away on the train and its about £25 for a travel past for a day. I get paranoid and jealous really easily like she tells me she gets lots of hugs from boys at school or they touch her ass, but i dont like it but its not like i can stop it. also i dont know why she tells me, cos i dont really care if she gets lots of hugs from other boys or not. i told my mates about it and they think shes trying to get me jealous but i dont see why she needs to, cos she says stuff like some builders or boys shout stuff at her like "oi oi sexy" or stare at her in a pervey way. i told her before i didnt like it so she said she would stop telling me but she lasted about a week and she started again. Another thing is should i be worried or jealous because in setember (i think) she told me *his name* came around her house, and no-one was in except them and then he went when her brother got back. and she said something about him gving her a helecopter ride, which i have no idea what it is but her boobs ended up in his face.. again i didnt know why she felt like she had to tell me. also she use to fancy this boy, she says she doesnt anymore though, but i dont know cos how can i trust someone ive never met.. ive told her before that i felt like i couldnt trust her and she got upset/angry with me and said she couldnt go out with someone that didnt trust her. and she said she cried that made me feel really bad. Over the last 3-4 months ive felt like she doesnt love me as much anymore as she use to, but she just wont admit it, ive told her before that i thought that and she said she does and if anything loves me more than she did before. then she asked why i thought that but i chickened out telling her and said i dont know. then recently i sent her a email explaining the reasons why i felt she didnt love me as much as she use to. but when i came on next she wasnt happy with me, she had a big go at me and made me feel like crap, she thought that email way explaining things that annoyed me about her, which it wasnt. it was just a couple of things she does that i dont like. e.g. on her myspace she has it as shes single. she has 2 myspaces, 1 old 1 with me on it so you can tell she has a boyfriend and the other she made cos she wanted a new 1 which she has nothing about me on. i also have 2 myspaces 1 my 1 i have as im a relationship with her and the other i made back in april because my mates wanted me to get myspace but they didnt know about her and i didnt want them knowing. cos they will just take the piss cos its a LDR, i didnt tell my girlfriend cos i thought she wouldnt really care, but i was wrong she found it and had a huuuge go at me and made me feel like ****. and went on about why didnt i tell her, why did i keep something like that from her, she over reracted and knows she did. but i hid the staus bit so people woudnt know if im in a relationshop or single but now i have a link going to my bebo and if people click on it they would know i love her. she didnt say anything about why she had it as single after i sent that email. We send letters to each other and its her turn to send 1 but shes taken over 4 months to write it and her excuse was she hadnt written it yet but now its she hasnt finshed my birthday card she made, my birthday was in september ( she didnt get me anything ) but erm yea i dont see how hard it is to draw a picture on the front and write stuff inside, i told her thats all i would like in a birthday card, i was wondering if anyone else would care if there gf/bf didnt buy you anything for chrismas,valentines day and 2 birthdays and a 1 year anavisty ( cant spell it)m, because thats what she has done, i dont want to sound un grateful or anything but it just makes me feel like she doesnt care, ive brought her something for all of those above except her birthday has only pasted once. she offered to buy me this belt i liked back in july but she took to long to get it and i felt she was just making excuses and offered to send me money so i could buy it myself and she offered to send me money because she hasnt brought me anything yet but i said i didnt want any. only because money isnt a very good present id rather her go pick something to buy me. but now shes not sending it cos i brought the belt my self and said i didnt want it, but when she said she isnt sending it she seemed pissed off. anywho erm we both noticed that are relationship isnt the same as it use to be, the sparks gone. i reallyy want it to be like it use to be, shes said i changed but wont tell me how, so i cant change back. also she wont tell me want annoyed her about me so if im doing something she doesnt like i can stop it. which i dont like cos id rather her tell me about it so i can stop it and not annoy her. she says that i dont talk as much as i did do before but its only cos ive ran out things we can talk about, we have talked about loadss so its hard to think of stuff to talk about, and she takes the piss out of alot of things i say so then i dont talk about them anymore, but she says shes only joking, but its not even funny. but i dont say that cos then she will think i dont have a sense of humor but she does it to much. and i dont see the point of it. i dont like talking to her about problems in our relationship because most of the time it ends up her getting upset and argueing, like that email i said i dont want to agrue and then she said dont talk to me then.. which i felt was silly and just made me more upset than i already was. erm thats all i can think of right now theres lots more though. Thanks alot if you took the time of reading all that, and sorry if i made it sound confusing.
angelkra Posted November 15, 2006 Posted November 15, 2006 pls try to get back to me as i'm banker trying to share more ideas from people around the world ,again i have a great deal to share with you. hope to hear from you.
Touche Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 Angel, why can't you discuss it right here? Why so private? I see you posted the same thing on another thread.
Mattcat Posted November 17, 2006 Posted November 17, 2006 http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=helicopter+rides Helicopter Rides ^
Mary3 Posted November 18, 2006 Posted November 18, 2006 http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=helicopter+rides Helicopter Rides ^ OMG ! Well listen OP you don't and NEVER did have a relationship. The girl has changed and she teases you so you will get pissed with the boys she is messing around with. You dont have anything so thus you cannot tell her what to do. She is stringing you along until the big DUMP. IN the future get a real gf that you can be near in your home town. NEVER EVER do the internet email thingy again. ITs BS.
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