matty422 Posted November 15, 2006 Posted November 15, 2006 I was out Sunday in a Bar, this girl was looking at me she was with another girl and a man, I approached her started talking introduced myself, and spoke for 5 minutes then went back to who i was sitting with, before i left i called her over, and asked for her number she gave it to me, i called Tuesday evening (Yesterday) and spoke to her she sounded pleased that i called, i mentioned that we should meet up sometime, i did say that i was busy all week but could maybe do Wednesday or Sunday, she said that Wednesday was out of the question as she was going out, and she said i have your number i will call about Sunday cos she was going out Saturday on a really heavy night, and would let me know. Do you think this is games? or a bit of a brush off? Surely she could have mentioned another day possibly the following week?
Walk Posted November 15, 2006 Posted November 15, 2006 Probably won't know til she does, or doesn't call. Maybe she's a spur of the moment type person? Maybe she has to wait til her bf leaves on Sunday, and she's not sure what time that'll be? haha J/kidding.
gfto Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 It's probably a brush off. If she's interested, she'll call. In the future, when you call a woman for the first time, you have to ask for a specific date. Don't throw out ten different options. You call and say, "hey, this is (your name). Let's go to dinner at that new Mexican restaurant Tuesday night." Then, zip it and listen. If she likes you, she'll either accept the date, or make a specific counteroffer. Anything less means she isn't into you. What this girl did is a classic brush-off move. She didn't make any specific offer for a date and vaugely said she'll call you. Don't count on it.
Green Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 who knows its all a game in the begining. If I were you I would have been like no I'll call you sunday. That way the plan would have been 4 you to call instead of having to wait n c if she call which she probably wont because bad stuff like that always happens when u have such a far off date set for a phone call from some one u just met
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