princesskat Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 So....my heart has shattered.... I broke up with my boyfriend of 3.5 years two months ago. I moved out from our apartment to start a new fresh life... I started seeing a guy who i am really into....although we have been seeing eachother for the past month, he does no want to get serious (bf/gf stage) as he thinks it is too early on after my last break up...fair enough. Today i find out my ex....has slept with some one... and for some reason i am hurting so bad.....i was the first and only woman he slep with..... i feel so confused..... any one been in the same boat....? Help! I want things to work out with this new guy but....maybe i am not fully over the whole break up and i need a break to work out myself before seeing some one seriously... help....
theadventure50120 Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 So....my heart has shattered.... I broke up with my boyfriend of 3.5 years two months ago. I moved out from our apartment to start a new fresh life... I started seeing a guy who i am really into....although we have been seeing eachother for the past month, he does no want to get serious (bf/gf stage) as he thinks it is too early on after my last break up...fair enough. Today i find out my ex....has slept with some one... and for some reason i am hurting so bad.....i was the first and only woman he slep with..... i feel so confused..... any one been in the same boat....? Help! I want things to work out with this new guy but....maybe i am not fully over the whole break up and i need a break to work out myself before seeing some one seriously... help.... How do you know he slept with someone else? My ex did that after 2-3weeks after the break up but she thought i was doing something and said it basically straight away she had slept with someone (i do know she was all over a guy clubbing)...but erm yeah whatever. If she has slept with someone now it's none of my buisness. Can't expect her to sit around doing nothing. I'm dating someone now , had it on Saturday , got another tomoro...and cinema this Saturday. It's the only way to move on in my eyes as i do like her (did when i was with the ex , but we both had someone) If he told you he slept with someone , he is lying because your dating.
tdmce Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 I think you may have rushed into this new relationship a little too quickly. You obviously are not completely over your ex and need more time to be happy being single before comitting to somebody else. It's natural to get jealous that he is with somebody else, but it doesn't mean you should give that relationship another go, there was a reason you broke up with him so you need to remember that.
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