kandygirl Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 Is it normal for 2 people to have a good long distance relationship, and get along great, but the guy dosen't call every day? I posted something simular in the dating forum but didn't really get a lot of responce. We've been together for about 3 weeks, and we're doing everything bf/gfs do (except sleeping together) he hasen't officially asked me to be his gf yet, but do guys really do that these days?? Thanks in advance for your time
Pyro Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 I'm not sure exactly what the norm is for an LDR in terms of contact. Some guys will ask to make the relationship official, it just depends on the guy.
Author kandygirl Posted November 14, 2006 Author Posted November 14, 2006 I guess you could call it a LDR, we're only an hour away from eachother. Thanks for your quick reply!!
Pyro Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 I guess you could call it a LDR, we're only an hour away from eachother. Thanks for your quick reply!! Your welcome. You called it an LDR first silly. An hour is not that bad. My SO lives about 25 minutes away. I hope that you two get to see each other at least on weekends.
luvtoto Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 Is it normal for 2 people to have a good long distance relationship, and get along great, but the guy dosen't call every day? I posted something simular in the dating forum but didn't really get a lot of responce. We've been together for about 3 weeks, and we're doing everything bf/gfs do (except sleeping together) he hasen't officially asked me to be his gf yet, but do guys really do that these days?? Thanks in advance for your time I am in a relationship with a guy that lives an hour away, also. We've been dating almost 2 months. At first he was calling me too much...then, we decided to call each other on Tues & Thurs. nights only. Now, we call each other whenever we feel like it. If we want to have some alone-time...we just say, "hey, I'm gonna watch this movie, mind if I call you tomorrow night??" No hurt feelings. Also, yes, guys do still ask you to be exclusive. I didn't give much time to my guy on the phone until he did ask me to be his one and only. Why? Cause I wasn't gonna invest too much in him, if he's not going to want to invest in me. At the beginning of relationships, I like to keep things *even*. Not give more than I get. The more our relationship progresses and the more I am liking him...the more I WANT to talk to him. At first, before I knew how I felt about him...I didn't really want to talk that much on the phone with him. Felt like he was smothering me a bit. But, then he backed off a bit. I appreciated the space. The space from him allowed me time to realize how much I really did care. Don't be insecure and try very hard not to smother him. Especially in a new relationship.
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