typical Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 Short notice and all, I know. But I need advice within the next twenty minutes before I suffer from meltdown..so if you feel so inclined, please help! Thank you. Situation: You have a boyfriend. Every month with him, its a new girl. The new flavor of the month. You are almost certain he hasnt banged her (or any of them, not because he doesnt want to, but because he is so ****ing ugly, he could only dream to). But new girl this month, instead of doing the secret phone call hide away thingie, decides to text. apparently very mad that he isnt talking to her and wants to know why. What to make of this situation? and how to proceed? How to deal with the anger of being taken for a fool, yet again?
alphamale Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 WTF are you asking here? Jesus Christ man.
Art_Critic Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 WTF are you asking here? Jesus Christ man. I'm confused too........ Are you saying that your BF is always cheating on you with a new girl every month ?
Author typical Posted November 14, 2006 Author Posted November 14, 2006 WTF are you asking here? Jesus Christ man Oh for gawds sake...read it again, alphie. My boyfriend has a new girl every month that he likes to use for an ego stroking, only the new flavor this month is getting a little clingy. Okay, specifically, should I call her myself and inform her that she is in no position to be lording her hurt feelings over my boyfriends head because he is taken? I am just trying to head it all off at the pass.
Author typical Posted November 14, 2006 Author Posted November 14, 2006 I'm confused too........ I dont have time for this nonsense, 15 minutes to go.... No art, he is not having sex with any of these girls, because he is as ugly as a vomit puddle. Would you want to have sex with a vomit puddle? I thought not.
Art_Critic Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 Then my advice is that you make him your EX BF.... why submit yourself to his antics and disrespect.. Make him part of your past
silentcharon Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 No.... but you obviously find him attractive enough anyway, stating the obvious he's YOUR bf. If you find him attractive, it's likely that other women do too. He's with you, not the girl of the month. Remember that. If you have a problem with it, why don't you stroke his ego instead? Maybe he wouldn't have to go to other women to get his ego stroked.
tinktronik Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 Typ, why are you having sex with the vomit puddle? You know you need to get rid of him . Do not call her , just leave right now , walk away , done finito.
Island Girl Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 sex or not he is elsewhere in thought or in action. I don't care what he 'needs' from other women. I wouldn't put up with it and as far as him being ugly and not getting any...you're with him aren't you? It is ridiculous to think there isn't another person out there that would do the same thing. You obviously don't find him attractive and he is obviously leading on these women either in act or omission so why are you even with him. Dump him and get your own head together so you can have a relationship that is healthier and not so co-dependent.
Walk Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 Text the girl back. Tell her: Come over at 5pm 2nite. Need 3rd for orgy. Vomit puddle may back out, please be prepared for hot lesbian sex. p.s. bring the big vibrator. Not the strap on this time.
Author typical Posted November 14, 2006 Author Posted November 14, 2006 Sorry I cant stop to chat, no time, I will respond to each of you in the morning... Seriously, he is not an ugly vomit puddle, that was just my wounded pride speaking. I do stroke his ego and other things as well but for some people that is just not enough. Do not call her , just leave right now , walk away , done finito. Tink, Can I please just call her?? I am really itching to do it....What do I have to lose anyhow? He's with you, not the girl of the month. Remember that. True, Silent, and funny thing you said that because he wants to marry me, he was just talking to me about that last nite, but I would rather **** my pants than marry him. Yes, I told him that.
Art_Critic Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 Would you want to have sex with a vomit puddle? I thought not. But it doesn't mean that he isn't.. maybe he is just getting BJ's or just his ego stroked.. it shouldn't matter to you.. The man will never treat you right.. dump him...
Author typical Posted November 14, 2006 Author Posted November 14, 2006 Dump him and get your own head together so you can have a relationship that is healthier and not so co-dependent. Good idea, Island, I have thought to do this once or twice. Know any tricks for making it easier? Walk, Come over at 5pm 2nite. Need 3rd for orgy. Vomit puddle may back out, please be prepared for hot lesbian sex. p.s. bring the big vibrator. Not the strap on this time. Only in my wildest fantasies
Walk Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 Good idea, Island, I have thought to do this once or twice. Know any tricks for making it easier? Walk, Only in my wildest fantasies haha I actually told a girl who was hitting on my ex, that she should come over and I would violate her anally while my bf watched. She left in a huff and I never had a problem with her again. I would've been in real trouble if she'd taken me up on the offer. Have no clue how I would've gotten out of that one..
tinktronik Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 haha I actually told a girl who was hitting on my ex, that she should come over and I would violate her anally while my bf watched. She left in a huff and I never had a problem with her again. I would've been in real trouble if she'd taken me up on the offer. Have no clue how I would've gotten out of that one.. One of the girls my ex-H had an affair with got word that the H was still living and sleeping with me .She flipped on him and asked him for a threesome , he was like yeah....but I gotta ask my wife...dumba** ...... I left and so did she.
whichwayisup Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 He obviously has a huge ego and needs attention from other women. Question is, how does he control that so that you are enough for him. Sure, he may not be screwing around on you, but him flirting and chatting with other women about 'whatever' isn't healthy for your relationship with him. Do you love him? How long have you two been together? Is he worth fighting for or do you think he's gonna always need attention and ego stroking by others to get him through the day...
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