luvtoto Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 Just checkin' in. Wanted to thank you all for your advice on my last thread. You're reactions to me still being in love with my X-Fiance really woke me up. I have now realized that I was not in love with my XF, per say...but, an over-exaggerated version of him. After confessing, I realized, "hey dummy, are you willing to lose this new man in your life simply because you are not willing to move on??" I could either stay in love with a man that blew my heart to bits...(more than once!!)...or move on with my life with my new guy in our new relationship. I then asked myself which of those two scenarios could possibly offer me the most happiness in my life?? The answer was easy after that. It was the fork in the road that I needed to move on with my life. My new BF and I had a great weekend and have become closer than ever now.
magichands Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 I have now realized that I was not in love with my XF, per say...but, an over-exaggerated version of him. A couple extra inches makes all the difference.
Pyro Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 Just checkin' in. Wanted to thank you all for your advice on my last thread. You're reactions to me still being in love with my X-Fiance really woke me up. I have now realized that I was not in love with my XF, per say...but, an over-exaggerated version of him. After confessing, I realized, "hey dummy, are you willing to lose this new man in your life simply because you are not willing to move on??" I could either stay in love with a man that blew my heart to bits...(more than once!!)...or move on with my life with my new guy in our new relationship. I then asked myself which of those two scenarios could possibly offer me the most happiness in my life?? The answer was easy after that. It was the fork in the road that I needed to move on with my life. My new BF and I had a great weekend and have become closer than ever now. Glad to hear that its working out for you Luv. Be sure to keep us updated. I want all the hot and spicy details....
Author luvtoto Posted November 14, 2006 Author Posted November 14, 2006 There were plenty of hot and spicy details this weekend...trust me! We fit together good if you know what I mean. Had a talk with him about our kissing technique. I told him that we both seem to be wanting to *lead* when we kiss. I mentioned that maybe *he* should just follow *my* lead. Every dang time we are together, it just keeps getting better and better. No feeling smothered anymore or anything. I sometimes just get turned on by watching him. He's getting pretty attached to my kids, too. Who knows...maybe I will fall in love. Ha! ME! fall in love...can you believe it?? But, I think it's already happening.
Woggle Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 Good for you. I am very happy for you and I hope this works out. It is hard to open up your heart after having it used so badly but it can be done and if you really want things to work with this guy it is worth doing.
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