budd98 Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 I'm a little confused with the situation right now. My g/f wanted to break up for good this time after being together 2 years last friday. We never broke up for any bad reasons, she just didn't think we are right for each other. In all reallity, she told me that she wanted to get married and was sick of wasting her time just dating. So it has been 3 days now since we broke up. On day one she texted me telling me that she missed me. Day two, I dressed up nice and dropped off a sweet DVD I made her with poems about us in it I wrote for her. I only stayed for a couple minutes when I dropped it off. She kept asking me if I was going on a date, and I promised her NO. I never did, I just wanted to look good. That night she texted me saying that the dvd made her cry. Then she sent me animated love text messages. This morning she texted me asking if she scared me since she looked so ugly and also said I looked really nice last night. The she called me twice today for just odd questions that really didn't mean anything. Now I haven't texted her first, called at all, or made any contact but dropping off that dvd. I really love this girl and want her back, but I am not sure how I should play my cards to do this. This girl is very stubborn and I don't know what her actions mean. Could anyone give me some insight to any of this? Do you think she wants me back? If so, why isn't she coming back yet?
Guest Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 of coarse she wants u back, people r creatures of habbit. now ur not there and she is lonley.but u also said she is stubborn so there u go. she brobably feels like if she comes right back then u wont take her seriouse on seriouse subjects in the future. women r irrational and very strange from a mans perspective. if u try to figure them out ur doomed!!! just give her time and keep urself out of her picture,she knows what u want so if u really feel the need tell her one more time that u want her back and then step away. honest, it is her court. i wish u could just flip a switch and have it all go back to normal,but this happens to everyone,so maybe this is normal afterall.good luck and dont sweat it, if its ment to b then it will b.peace bro!
jwmorgan Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 She wants you back but only if you'll marry her it appears to me. If you're willing to do that, she'll have you back. You need to communicate. If you love her and she loves you, why not get married? If you don't want to marry her, be honest and say so. Maybe you don't want to yet or there are other obstacles. If there really is no future - i.e you have separate goals, end it now.
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