hindsfeet Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 ok im just curious... what do you look for in a significant other? what attracts you to another person? what are your turn-ons/ turn-offs in a relationship? be random. be serious . be funny. just curious about your responses so reply
laRubiaBonita Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 my ideal man has to be at least 5'10. he has to have a decent paying job that he does not hate. he cannot live at home. he needs to treat his mother well, especially in front of me. he has to like meeting new people and going out. he has to have a vehicle. he needs to have goals for himself. he has to have some confidence. he will have to treat me kindly. he has to be able to make me laugh. we have to have good, if not great sex.
alphamale Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 what do you look for in a significant other? at my age? anyone who's half-way normal...
Moai Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 Sense of humor, relaxed, easy-going manner, and a positive outlook. Oh, and she has to be built. In fat, I could do without the other stuff as long as she's built. The rest is gravy.
allina Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 I look for someone who- I can respect as a person is happy with their life has interests a decent job graduated college does not live with their parents I am physically attracted to I avoid- emotionally unhealthy/stable living at home religious stupid uneducated has children has ex-wife or other baggage speaks in a way that sounds idiotic
alphamale Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 oh yeah and I also like nice legs and feet...thats big with me.
allina Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 oh yeah and I also like nice legs and feet...thats big with me. I always end up with guys that are obsessed with legs and feet! what's up with that?
alphamale Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 I always end up with guys that are obsessed with legs and feet! you must have nice legs & feet ALLINA what's up with that? I don't know....i've always been into female feet ever since i was a kid. Nothing is more sexy that a woman with beautiful feet who is wearing sexy heels
laRubiaBonita Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 Sense of humor, relaxed, easy-going manner, and a positive outlook. Oh, and she has to be built. In fat, I could do without the other stuff as long as she's built. The rest is gravy. Gravy?!! yeah right!
allina Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 you must have nice legs & feet ALLINA I don't know....i've always been into female feet ever since i was a kid. Nothing is more sexy that a woman with beautiful feet who is wearing sexy heels I think I do have nice feet and legs. if I say so myself Feet/heel guys can be great. Not a bad deal for a girl, being out and having your bf say "you would look great in those stllettos, I'll get them for you"
ilani Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 i look for: at least 5'10 post grad muscles/built ambitious not too serious, give me plenty of room well established in career what I ended up falling for: 5'7 transfer student thin, slender somewhat ambitious, but not too sure totally serious - way into our relationship student funny how sometimes everything you wanted is nothing like what would make you happy.
rainfall Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 I like Longer hair Dark Hair Some facial hair doesn't want kids can't drive a truck with wheels taller then me (I see way to many of these around my home ) he must loves cats
burning 4 revenge Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 i'm still waiting for the poster attracted to a balding, pussy, mother's boy who spends all day on his computer
Mary3 Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 i'm still waiting for the poster attracted to a balding, pussy, mother's boy who spends all day on his computer LOL !..............
ShoeGirl Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 I like: -goal oriented guys (want to be in school to get somewhere in life) -somewhat athletic -can make me laugh -easy to talk to -taller than me (5'7") I can't stand: -smoking -lying -cheating -arrogance
rainfall Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 i'm still waiting for the poster attracted to a balding, pussy, mother's boy who spends all day on his computer It depends what he spends all day doing on his computer.
cutegirl Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 #1 thing I look for in a man is someone who is one hundred percent FAITHFUL, I find this is extremely rare and difficult to find. I might as well fly to the moon. This includes no blowjobs from other women, no handjobs, yea it's necessary to be specific because some guys will be like "I didn't have sex with her, I only had a handjob!". No massage parlors with happy endings, no prostitutes, no kissing another woman, no dry humping another woman. #2 Someone who is mentally stable. Now that I'm with someone who suffers from paranoid delusions I realize how important it is that your partner is MENTALLY SANE. Depression or anxiety is ok, but no full blown mental disorders like paranoia, schizphrenia, etc #3 Someone who can support themselves and doesn't mooch off of me! Trust me, I don't need ANY man to pay for me or buy me dinner, I make excellent money! I just want a man who can pay his own bills and pay his own rent! It seems like lots of guys these days are reversing roles and mooching off the woman. I just want a man to pay his share of the bills and please don't steal my money or withdraw large amounts from my bank account without asking (like my boyfriend is doing right now). Don't worry about me, I can pay MORE than my share. Please pay yours and don't expect me to pay for EVERYTHING. Don't worry, I can buy my own house, my own cars, my own clothes. But I can't pay your credit card bills and medical bills. I'm not your mommy!!!! (My current bf has problems in this regard). #4 Please be RESPECTFUL. Do not call be bitch or ho, and don't spit in my face or be abusive. Also don't steal my money (again). And don't break or kick my stuff when you're mad. #5 Someone who is not intimidated with a woman who earns more than they do. Someone who is not chauvinistic. Sorry, I'm not the housewife type. Someone who is not intimidated by a very assertive person. I like to be in charge, or for both of us to be in charge. I'm not the type to let "the man" make the decisons or defer to any man. Sorry. #6 Someone who is confident and secure, and doesn't get mental everytime we go out in public! I have had guys blame ME when other guys looked at me, saying I should have done something to avoid it or tell the other guy off. I want someone who is secure and confident. I don't care about looks! I don't care about money. I got my own! (As long as you don't expect me to support you). Just pay your own bills and keep your schlong in your pants! It's too much to ask for even. Most men are cheaters.
Touche Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 i'm still waiting for the poster attracted to a balding, pussy, mother's boy who spends all day on his computer Hey! You just described my type!
Author hindsfeet Posted November 14, 2006 Author Posted November 14, 2006 so what about if someone is trustworthy but gone a lot. like my work, since i tour i go away for like 10 weeks at a time. i try to trustworthy. money is not a deal to me. i can even have someone travel with me if they were able to. prob is i just have a hard time finding someone to be with. im not into just sex and want a lot more than that. the road really sucks for me lately cause im just lonely. how do you meet the type of person you want?
Lisa32 Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 I like a guy who's a non-cheater, reliable and has a full head of hair.
Mary3 Posted November 18, 2006 Posted November 18, 2006 I like a guy with a nice big chest , generous and rocks my world in bed !
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