onewish Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 Well.. the reason why i want to start this because i really dont know what to do. My long distance boyfriend and I have been together for about 2.5 years. We've been through alot.. even though we never seen each other before. There are days when he seems like he doesn't care about me... or there are days when i feel like im the most important person alive. He's coming this upcoming April and I'm very excited.. but.. can you guys give me some advices on dating.. he's like my first affecial boyfriend and I'm like his affecial girlfriend.. what do i do?
oh_what_am_I_doing Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 Two questions- A) How far away does he live? B) Don't take this the wrong way, but how old are you? I don't want to hurt your feelings, but if you've never actually met in person, he's not your boyfriend. IMO, being in a relationship with someone takes some face to face interaction; bonding (sexual, depending on your age), etc., that simply cannot be accomplished via computer and telephone alone. I'm reminded of a middle school student of mine who told me she's "dating" someone from Jamaica. It's just not the same thing as having a live person to hold and hug and spend time with.
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