Dating a Virgin Girl

[BenThereDunThat]

I think I just kinda did that on the other virgin thread......

 

It is ..... well lets say....... I imagine it is a interesting experience.

 

I've only taken one guy's virginity - my first's. I can't imagine doing so now. I think it would creep me out, actually.

[alphamale]

maybe i will join al-qaeda and blow myself up and have 72 virgins in heaven

[a4a]

Look people, I am who I am. And I should be aloud to feel the way I do and make a move on a grown women without being cursed. Im not going to lie to her and I'm not going to get her drunk. I've kept it no secret of the way Ive had relationships in the past and I never told her Id be willing to wait till mariage. I like women and I dont look at them as some enemy to be conquered but I do admit I would probably brag atleast on hear at this point if I do get her virginity.

 

:lmao: It is fine to brag and she may brag about you too. Or she may laugh her ass off at you. IMHO bagging a virgin really is not that big of a deal. I cannot imagine why this is such a huge deal..... cuz she picks you to be the one..... if she decides to have sex with you it could be just because you are available to do so and you meet some of her requirements.

 

As long as she is willing I don't see a problem with it. And as long as you are not telling her some sort of lies just to have sex with her or any other woman. Nor attempting to force it like rape.

 

Good luck, stand tall, stay hard, and report back.

 

Wouldn't it suck if you could not get it up........ OMG that would so suck for her!

[The slayer]

Ive been on a couple of dates with a girl who I found out is a Virgin. She said she believes in waiting untill mariage to have sex. I told her that I'm not a virgin. I'm thinking of trying to get sex from her the next date even after what I learned.

 

I'm a bit confused here.

 

The OP has stated that his girlfriend is a virgin and has told him she believes in waiting until marriage to have sex and he is "thinking" I repeat thinking of still trying to have sex with her.

 

He has clearly stated that he has no intention of getting her drunk, and that if she dumps him for this attempt to have sex with her, then thats cool with him.

 

Now correct me if I am wrong, but when I was a young girl, that is exactly what every boy I and all my friends went out with tried to do. I dumped people for this and they dumped me. I never felt threatened or really under pressure, just occasionally dissapointed.

 

Eventually I had sex someone when I wanted to, so did most of my friends, and those that morally chose to wait until marriage did not.

 

Most of the debate on this thread has just been people not really hearing what others are trying to say, so it turns into the women v's men thing. It happens a lot both on here and in real life, but especially on here. It's a very distant form of communication and most people express themselves quite badly, the written word is not always the easiest way to make yourself understood and people read, type and post quickly on the whole, leaving loads of potential for misinterpretation and lots of assumptions to be made, by typing and posting quickly.

 

Someones got to be first and most people don't actually wait til they are married.

 

There is a big difference between trying to have sex and coercing someone to have sex.

 

So OP, try your best but don't push it, if she not up for it, find someone who is.

 

Woman who have a strong moral vewpoint don't just cave in when a man tries to have sex with them, at least they are dating and The OP isn't proposing to just have se with her and dump her.

 

Oh and I'm pretty sure that cursing each other, for having a different point of view is probably against the guidelines

[quietintrovertgirl]

Look people, I am who I am. And I should be aloud to feel the way I do and make a move on a grown women without being cursed. Im not going to lie to her and I'm not going to get her drunk. I've kept it no secret of the way Ive had relationships in the past and I never told her Id be willing to wait till mariage. I like women and I dont look at them as some enemy to be conquered but I do admit I would probably brag atleast on hear at this point if I do get her virginity.[/quote

 

Stud muffin

 

I don't mind you having sex with women but if you use this virgin woman for sex.you will be curse until you do right by a virgin woman. You're a good man don't use her for bragging rights

[quietintrovertgirl]

maybe i will join al-qaeda and blow myself up and have 72 virgins in heaven

 

Do you need a match?

[quietintrovertgirl]

This links is for Alpha and KTM,

 

 

http://www.ninjapirate.com/virgins.html

[Teacher's Pet]

KMT,

 

I just wanted to thank you for elevating my place in society.

 

Guys like you make guys like me get appreciated more.

 

And I'm not that modest that I won't say "I'm the nice guy".

 

Taking a girl's virginity should not be a "project" or a "goal".

 

To be honest, I don't know if I'd WANT to date a virgin.

 

Sex is a natural part of a loving relationship, and to be honest, I prefer women with some experience. I like when my partner already knows what she likes, because I'm more than happy to provide it in adundance.

 

I like my girls naughty.

 

-tp

whore in the bedroom.

[The slayer]

Quietintrovertgirl

 

I found your link offensive to men, virgins and catholic priests

 

For the record my first time was pretty good , for both of us. I hadn't gone from playing with Barbies to having intercourse with the first man I met. I had fully explored my sexuality before I came to the point of having intercourse and knew exactly what I wanted to do and what I wanted. It was also not the missionary position.

 

No one here is talking about using virgins for sex or chasing virgins.

 

The reason why the OP might brag a bit on here (In anonomous cyberspace NOT with all his mates) if he has sex with his virgin girlfriend is because, having sex with her will make him feel special. Beacuse she changed her mind about her viewpoint for him, this to me is not only completely understandable but very probably true, as woman do veiw their "First" as in someway special ( BTW I find the term "virgin girl" offensive it's patronising and implies the woman is underage which is a completely different topic)

 

The first will always be remembered whatever else happen, and that understandably makes a man feel good.

 

Stop knocking KMT for expressing his view honestly, a lot of virgins out there are just waiting for someone special to come along and deflower them, surely it is best for the men who want to have sex to find them. KMT has no plans to decive or coerce his girlfriend into having sex, he just hopes that she will but if not he will find someone else. Absolutely the right thing to do if the person you are dating can't fulfill your needs.

 

I completely respect your view and would support your right to defend your own virginity, but not all virgins would want you to speak and curse on their behalf.

[burning 4 revenge]

KMT I think you're looking in the wrong place. If I was your age again I'd look for some horny middle aged woman who likes young guys...well..like my last GF. You'll get all the sex you can handle and more. Believe me.

 

Maybe look on AFF or some similar site. I think you live in the New York area too, so the possibilities are limitless. Carpet Diem my friend

[quietintrovertgirl]

The slayer,

 

I think you better reread my post to KTM.This virgin woman wants to wait until marriage and KMT is going to "Con" her into changing her mind.which is very offensive?KTM can have sex with any nonvirgin woman but he needs to have a woman who's not ready for sex.

Any person who sides with KTM or Alpha on this issue only must have no respect for sex with commitment virgin women period.yes those 2 men deserve a curse until they do right by a virgin woman.

The slayer for you AS A woman to side with those 2 shows men you have no respect for your fellow women.This is not about agreeing with me.A woman about to be used sexually.So if you feel offended take that energry toward KMT.

P.S sorry honey I will speak up for any virgin who's about to be used sexually from the opposite sex.I can't help it .You don't respect virgin women.

[Kamille]

Any person who sides with KTM or Alpha on this issue only must have no respect for sex with commitment virgin women period.yes those 2 men deserve a curse until they do right by a virgin woman.

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Oh no! we have to pick sides? (I am reminded of the Bush administration... "you are either for us or against us"!)

 

I'll go the Nader way: vote for free will. This woman, like all humans, has a brain. She will use her better judgement.

 

I respect women. and men.

 

and Teacher's Pet, I think you're cute ... But then I have a tendency of falling for really nice guys and it's a well known fact that they're the ones who really break your heart...

[IpAncA]

So...KTM. How did it go?

[alphamale]

So...KTM. How did it go?

KMT will keep us updated...

[quietintrovertgirl]

kamille,

 

Stop the side show crap.

 

 

This is the last time i'm going to post on this topic because we'll never know if KTM is telling us the truth about this "virgin"woman.I seriuos believe he's lying and bragging just to get attention. I like you stud muffin but i also know you're trying to create a sexual resumes .Men seriuos lie when they are creating a sexual resumes because A virgin on your resumes will give you brown points with jerk men .It's working just look at Alpha.He and other LS memebers are buying your story and alpha's drowling.

Well i'm not going to be con anymore so alpha and others enjoy hearing the rest of the con virgin story.

[The slayer]

The slayer,

 

I think you better reread my post to KTM.This virgin woman wants to wait until marriage and KMT is going to "Con" her into changing her mind.which is very offensive?KTM can have sex with any nonvirgin woman but he needs to have a woman who's not ready for sex.

Any person who sides with KTM or Alpha on this issue only must have no respect for sex with commitment virgin women period.yes those 2 men deserve a curse until they do right by a virgin woman.

The slayer for you AS A woman to side with those 2 shows men you have no respect for your fellow women.This is not about agreeing with me.A woman about to be used sexually.So if you feel offended take that energry toward KMT.

P.S sorry honey I will speak up for any virgin who's about to be used sexually from the opposite sex.I can't help it .You don't respect virgin women.

 

Sorry but that is just crap. I am siding with noone and noone is being "Coned" Your choice of word and to suggest that I have no respect for fellow women or virgins is just crazy.

 

Your assumptions are really quite incredable

[Green]

Quietintrovert girl I respect the fact that your a 36 year old virgin and god have mercy on any mans soul who should ever make the mistake of trying to convince you other wise. As far as updates go I'll let you guys know how this turns out one way or another. This isnt the first time I've made a move on a virgin I failed horibly the first time I encountered this scenario with a girl back when I was in school so hopefuly second times the charm.

[Kamille]

kamille,

 

Stop the side show crap.

.

 

Wow, my first LS diss! I know I've made it now! oh wait, better stop the side show crap less i get a curse placed on me until I do right by a virgin woman!

 

I repeat. I believe KMT is in over his head. He likes a woman who won't have sex until she's married. I also believe this woman can fend for herself because I believe she has her own brain and is capable of standing by her convictions.

 

Now what I think of KMT's maturity level in all this is a whole other chapter. I hope hope hope he gets shot down.

[quietintrovertgirl]

Sorry but that is just crap. I am siding with noone and noone is being "Coned" Your choice of word and to suggest that I have no respect for fellow women or virgins is just crazy.

 

sYour assumptions are really quite incredable

 

Slayer either handle the words i just said or move on next.KMT all i want is sex with commitment from a man if that's hard to ask from a man.There are some WEAK men in the world.WEAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Kamille double next:laugh:

[Kamille]

Now what I think of KMT's maturity level in all this is a whole other chapter. I hope hope hope he gets shot down.

 

oops, I was going to edit but lost the privilege... I don't condone actual violence and would certainly not wish anyone any harm. I want to make it clear that what I hope is that she dumps his ass.

[Art_Critic]

Slayer either handle the words i just said or move on next.KMT all i want is sex with commitment from a man if that's hard to ask from a man.There are some WEAK men in the world.WEAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Kamille double next:laugh:

 

I see 50 and being a virgin in your future.. and not because there aren't any guys out there willing to commit first but because you sound bitter and sound like you hate men..

 

I think it is sad that you are missing out on one of the biggest parts of a relationship because you think that you have something they want and you keep it from them as if it was a commodity and hold it up for a higher price than the market bears

 

 

Just my opinion

[alphamale]

I see 50 and being a virgin in your future.. and not because there aren't any guys out there willing to commit first but because you sound bitter and sound like you hate men..

ha ha ha....yeah....CURVYGURL is like a 35 yr old virgin also. The thing these women don't realize it that people change once they have sex. And the change is usually for the better.

[Teacher's Pet]

and Teacher's Pet, I think you're cute ... But then I have a tendency of falling for really nice guys and it's a well known fact that they're the ones who really break your heart...

 

*blushing* Why thank you.

 

Nothing wrong with falling for a nice guy. Remember, if a guy breaks your heart, how "nice" was he, really?

 

I can honestly say, except for once, I've never "dumped" a girl, and the one I broke off with, well, it was truly not working out, and we shook hands and parted ways.

 

I wish my last breakup was this congenial.

 

But, at least someone thinks I'm cute now.

 

-tp

cutie patootie

[Kamille]

*blushing* Why thank you.

 

Nothing wrong with falling for a nice guy. Remember, if a guy breaks your heart, how "nice" was he, really?

 

I can honestly say, except for once, I've never "dumped" a girl, and the one I broke off with, well, it was truly not working out, and we shook hands and parted ways.

 

I wish my last breakup was this congenial.

 

But, at least someone thinks I'm cute now.

 

-tp

cutie patootie

 

Hi there cutie patootie - let me tell you, nice guys have broken my heart... see, it's easy to get over jerks. After all, they're jerks. Nice guys are just great guys who got away.

 

But I should stop sidetracking. Did you hear? This thread is cursed!

 

Say, you wouldn't happen to know a virgin woman I could do right by? I promise not to introduce her to KMT.

[Teacher's Pet]

LOL...

 

I don't personally know any virgins, of "legal" age.

 

How about a newly re-virginized man? (me)

 

-tp

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