lighthouse Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 I popped my ex-wife's cherry And look how well that turned out!!!!!!!! :lmao:
Kamille Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 KMT how are you going to go about trying to "get sex" from her? Are you going to try and sweet talk? Anyways, let's all not forget that this woman is herself a free agent capable of making her own decisions. If not deceited. I think KMT just enjoys the fantasies this woman afforded him.
IpAncA Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 KMT is this a joke or something? Well if she wants to sleep with you then she will but if she doesn't and feels really strong about waiting then your not going to get anywhere with her. Plan and simple.
Author Green Posted November 13, 2006 Author Posted November 13, 2006 I wonder what the percentage of guys out there have tried to talk a virgin into sex ????? maybe 98% ?? We are all virgins at one point in our lives.. when we are younger we are all virgins.. but we try to talk another virgin into having sex.. and the cycle continues.. I don't think what he is trying to do is as bad as his tone about it.. her being a virgin and the conquest of that shouldn't be the driving factor.. He seems to have the conquest tone.. that would be damaging to the girl.. but taking the virginity of a girl that wants to have sex isn't the worst thing that could happen to her... What I'm trying to do is get laid by a girl that I like who happens to be a virgin saying she wants to wait for marriage. (dont practicaly all virgin girls say that?)
alphamale Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 What I'm trying to do is get laid by a girl that I like who happens to be a virgin saying she wants to wait for marriage. (dont practicaly all virgin girls say that?) KMT...don't listen to any of these clowns trying to disuade you. Go for it and I hope you succeed. Just be gentle with her
Author Green Posted November 13, 2006 Author Posted November 13, 2006 Just be nice about it because many guys make women feel like crap about that subject so try and be a gentleman. Despite what Alphamale will tell you, it won't kill you. Plus she'll respect you and you will have something to be proud of (rather than acting like a dog.) She will have no reason to feel like crap. Alphamale knows what hes talking about. tear her apart and make her feel like a woman. show her where her spot is in society! Don't you worry about a thing im not saying you should marry a virgin. what im getting at is that if you play her. she will be hurt and feel used. thats baggage that is hard to bring into a new relationship. if she is that moralistic about her sexuality, it says a lot about how much she respects herself and who she wants to be with. im only saying dont view laying her as a goal. if you want to have sex with her, respect her enough to be real with her and honestly try to do what is not going to hurt her. no one wants to be a jerk i know and i dont think you really wanna be that way. you've posted really good stuff on here and seem pretty straight up . how do you feel about her? if you feel like she is worth waiting on, there is something there. if you dont think she is, then i would question my intentions and look at big picture of things like how is this going to affect me or her 6 months from now or a yr. im like you in the sense that i need the physical in a relationship but also i want more than that. I just found out she was a virgin after dating her a couple of times so getting something sexual was always part of my plan. What isnt part of my plan is using some one for just sex or the other extreme just having a kissing gf. Not that it matters to you KMT or even you Alpha but for a lot of females losing your virginity to someone is very important. It is even more important who you lose it to. Sad that this girl might possibly lose it to someone who just wants to score. Are you going to get her drunk to get what you want KMT? lighthouse I don't just want to score, but I really do want to score. No I dont plan on getting her drunk. Most men "just want to score". And there is nothing to be ashamed of. Exactly am I supposed to be ashamed of wanting to score with her just because so far in her short hot life she decided to stay a virgin? No way! I'm going for the gold KMT how are you going to go about trying to "get sex" from her? Are you going to try and sweet talk? Anyways, let's all not forget that this woman is herself a free agent capable of making her own decisions. If not deceited. I think KMT just enjoys the fantasies this woman afforded him. with out getting into to much detail I just plan to take the making out and touching to the next level get her Naked and hope shes horny enough to go for it. KMT is this a joke or something? Well if she wants to sleep with you then she will but if she doesn't and feels really strong about waiting then your not going to get anywhere with her. Plan and simple. Well I have to try 2morrow...
Touche Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 Why do I feel dirty all of a sudden? (Off to take a shower...)
Kamille Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 She will have no reason to feel like crap. Alphamale knows what hes talking about. I just found out she was a virgin after dating her a couple of times so getting something sexual was always part of my plan. What isnt part of my plan is using some one for just sex or the other extreme just having a kissing gf. I don't just want to score, but I really do want to score. No I dont plan on getting her drunk. . So basically this getting some from the virgin deal is your nut's way of trying to communicate to your heart that you're really into her! Haha!
BenThereDunThat Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 KMT is just being honest. It's just the truth that guys wanna get laid. Period. I get so tired of men acting like they want something more because they think I'm dumb enough that I need to hear those things. That said, when I was still a virgin, I dated a bad boy who wasn't. He flat out told me that he didn't see us having a relationship because he can't have one without sex. It wasn't a threat. He was just respecting my wishes and being clear about his own. Don't insult my intelligence with "love" lies.
alphamale Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 as I've stated 1,000 times here on LS.....when men want advice on getting action they should seek the advice of men who are successful with women. They should NEVER ask women for advice like this cause women will usually steer them wrong.
lighthouse Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 KMT is just being honest. It's just the truth that guys wanna get laid. Period. I get so tired of men acting like they want something more because they think I'm dumb enough that I need to hear those things. That said, when I was still a virgin, I dated a bad boy who wasn't. He flat out told me that he didn't see us having a relationship because he can't have one without sex. It wasn't a threat. He was just respecting my wishes and being clear about his own. Don't insult my intelligence with "love" lies. Agreed BTDT. It is all about respect. as I've stated 1,000 times here on LS.....when men want advice on getting action they should seek the advice of men who are successful with women. They should NEVER ask women for advice like this cause women will usually steer them wrong. Oh alpha. Your superior attitude cracks me up everytime. Who do you men plan on having sex with? Women or each other? If it is each other than listen to yourself but if it is with a woman you might want to at least get some idea of how she might feel. I mean if I want to know what a BJ feels like I am going to ask men, not women. If you want to know how women feel about the person that "deflowers them" you should ask a woman. (I have always wanted to use "deflower" in a sentence. Thanks) KMT - the overwhelming majority of women are not happy with their first experience with sex. I know I wasn't. I never had sex with him again and to this day I talk about how bad he was. She probably will feel like crap and will tell all of her friends how crappy you are in bed and how insensitive you were to here feelings if you get that far. Of course you could have one of those girls who really regrets it and cries rape. There was a girl in my high school that did that. It was really sad. lighthouse
Yamaha Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 She'll wind up giving her virginity to a guy she doesn't really care about but that she's got the hots for. Girls do it all the time. They will give it up to the guy who her parents dislike the most or just on a whim. If you really want her then be a little rebellious and you will have a good shot.
BenThereDunThat Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 She'll wind up giving her virginity to a guy she doesn't really care about but that she's got the hots for. Girls do it all the time. They will give it up to the guy who her parents dislike the most or just on a whim. If you really want her then be a little rebellious and you will have a good shot. Not me! I waited until I was "in love". We were each other's firsts. I thought I was going to marry him. But now? Screw love. If you're horny, and I'm horny, let's just be honest about it and do it. No need to patronize me with a bunch of lies. Sorry for jacking this thread for my own rant!
IpAncA Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 If you're horny, and I'm horny, let's just be honest about it and do it. Isn't that the truth. Why deny it. Thats probably the honest thing that I've read all day.
ilani Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 someone already said this earlier - but if she ends up sleeping with kmt, it was because her resolve wasn't that strong in the first place considering that they've only been on a few dates. everyone's an adult and everyone makes their own decisions about what to do with their body. If she REALLY is waiting for marriage, then whatever kmt does or says, she won't give up easily. you can't fault him for wanting what he wants, especially since sex (for many) is a way for people to feel close with eachother if there's mutual like. I'd say go for it, as long as there's consent.
lighthouse Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 I certainly don't think that if this girl jumps KMT he should say "No, you are a virgin blah blah blah." I just don't think he has much respect for her morals, or at least his OP didn't. lighthouse
YellowLioness Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 I half way think that maybe I should say something matronly like, "the marriage bed is sacred," or some such fluff. My first time was with a silly boy with a big penis who had no idea how to use it. He sucked, I told all of the girls in the dorm, and everyone made fun of him for a very long time. I think that if she's going to give it up to a boy like the OP, so be it. Hopefully, she will think of it as a learning experience, and glean satisfaction from her friends making fun of him, much as I did. If she does not give it up, he'll just move on to the next girl. To him, virgin or not, they're all pink where it counts. The "virgin" part makes it more interesting for him, but there are more chaste fish in the sea for him to swim after. Perhaps I'm too crass about this, but everyone makes stupid mistakes- sexually or otherwise.
shawn_68 Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 Ive been on a couple of dates with a girl who I found out is a Virgin. She said she believes in waiting untill mariage to have sex. I told her that I'm not a virgin. I'm thinking of trying to get sex from her the next date even after what I learned. She said that she is waiting until marriage. Just shows a basic and ugly disrespect you have for her. Hopefully she sees the REAL you.
quietintrovertgirl Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 I lost all respect for you KMT.I don't even want to know when you score with this woman because there are so many woman out there for you to F**K. What comes around goes around and i hope bad things happen to you until you do right by a virgin woman.
quietintrovertgirl Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 KMT...don't listen to any of these clowns trying to disuade you. Go for it and I hope you succeed. Just be gentle with her Alphamale, I hope bad things happen to you too until you do right by a virgin woman.
IpAncA Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 I dont know why everyone is so worried about it. If she has stong beliefs and is determined to wait it's not going to happen. If she doesn't then it will. I guess its like an accomplishment for a guy to be with a virgin or so I've heard.
Guest Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 Alphamale, I hope bad things happen to you too until you do right by a virgin woman. Wow, I agree with you. He's in it for the 'brag' to anyone who will listen. It's all an ego trip, on his part. Watch, he'll paint a picture for us all - so he will look good to his buds.
shawn_68 Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 I dont know why everyone is so worried about it. If she has stong beliefs and is determined to wait it's not going to happen. If she doesn't then it will. That's exactly right. Which is why I am not worried about her. I do think his attitude shows disrespect to her. Most people that have taken a stand to remain sexually pure until marriage, view it has a sacred act. Not to be taken lightly. And I am sure that it is a hard decision to make. Afterall, they have the same desires that all of us have as well. But they view it as important to wait. To ignore this, and try for a night of passion anyway, is not only disrespecting something that is important to her, but disrespecting HER. Nuff said.
alphamale Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 If you want to know how women feel about the person that "deflowers them" you should ask a woman. (I have always wanted to use "deflower" in a sentence. Thanks) I don't give a rat's ass how a women "feels" about being de-flowered.. KMT - the overwhelming majority of women are not happy with their first experience with sex. most men aren't either...so we're even She'll wind up giving her virginity to a guy she doesn't really care about but that she's got the hots for. Girls do it all the time. Ha ha ha....yeah she'll bang some good looking dude with a great body and nothing in the brians dept. H AH HAHA
Pyro Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 Ive been on a couple of dates with a girl who I found out is a Virgin. She said she believes in waiting untill mariage to have sex. I told her that I'm not a virgin. I'm thinking of trying to get sex from her the next date even after what I learned. Kind of selfish on your part but, whatever floats your boat.
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