miss snoopy Posted November 12, 2006 Posted November 12, 2006 Just a quickie - my ex has put 2 CDs I got for him (when we were dating) from amazon marketplace back on amazon marketplace! I know he listened to them and he in fact asked for them, and I know he's a bit skint and selling loads of stuff, but for goodness sake do gifts have no sentimental value these days? Anyway I'm posting as I want to buy one or both of them off amazon and see what happens when he sees the address to send it to - please tell me not to!
Art_Critic Posted November 12, 2006 Posted November 12, 2006 Anyway I'm posting as I want to buy one or both of them off amazon and see what happens when he sees the address to send it to - please tell me not to! Grab a hold of yourself girl... Don't do something so immature as that..You will look psycho or crazy and doing so will just make why he broke up with you a reality... He may be doing it to poke at you or hurt you.. but you need to take the higher road and stop looking at his emails and his amazon account
Author miss snoopy Posted November 12, 2006 Author Posted November 12, 2006 Grab a hold of yourself girl... Don't do something so immature as that..You will look psycho or crazy and doing so will just make why he broke up with you a reality... He may be doing it to poke at you or hurt you.. but you need to take the higher road and stop looking at his emails and his amazon account Thanks for that Art Critic, that's why I come here! I don't think he's doing it to hurt me as he's put loads for sale, not just my CDs. But I'm just mad he'd do something like that. I'm dumping some of the crap stuff he gave me at the nearest charity shop tomorrow morning - he'll never know but I'll feel better!
Art_Critic Posted November 12, 2006 Posted November 12, 2006 Breaking up isn't easy on anybody.. When they don't give you closure and won't speak to you it hurts even worse.. which is exactly what they want.. It's best to give them what they want.. silence.. Hindsight I wish today that I had been capable of silence.. but I was so hurt that all I could think about was her.. don't make that mistake Try and make something else the focus in your life..
Author miss snoopy Posted November 12, 2006 Author Posted November 12, 2006 Try and make something else the focus in your life.. It's hard but I'll try! I agree about silence, coming here helps although I wonder if being here makes one think of them more? But if I wasn't here I'll be eyeing the phone... It hurts to think someone can just walk away from you, put up a wall of silence, make you out to be the wronged party and get on with their lives. Says a lot about their character. I'm going to stop beating myself about it all - it really is good riddance!
Guest Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 Miss Snoopy, Please, please, please stop looking at ANYTHING online relating to him. It's only going to prolong the pain for you. I can say this with all certainty, because I am going through the same thing that you are....I am the guest poster that lost my ex-boyfriend because of psych symptoms relating to my thyroid disease....see: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t103085/ Both you and I have to face the fact that our exes have, for whatever reason of weakness on their part, walked away from us during difficult health problems. That means that the relationship was NOT meant to be. If they really loved us enough, they would still be with us. Period. I know this is hard to hear, because it's even hard for me to type these words, as painful as they are. But the best thing that you can do for yourself, and for your future is to stop looking for crumbs of evidence that there may be any chance of reconciling. Doing so will only drive you further into depression and anxiety. Stop analyzing, or thinking about what you should do to prove things to him -- it's all fruitless and will keep you entrenched in the past. They have moved on, and so should we...because it's the only way that we will find a man strong enough and worthy enough of our love.
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