greyskies Posted November 12, 2006 Posted November 12, 2006 I posted about this guy with a short fuse a week or so ago and you all told me to get out while I can. Well I didn't and tonight I caught him at a motel room with another woman after he left my house not five minutes before that. The thing that is making me sick to my stomach is a few days ago he told me he was going to get his check. But his boss told him he did not have any work for him that Sat. So I was at work at the time and he asked me to call when I got home. I called and he said can you call back in 20 minutes. I did and he tells me oh I have to go to San Diego to work right now. I was like what ever you just told me he said there was no work. He tells me to F off and hangs up and turns off his phone. I go to bed and wake up several times and call his phone it is still off. The last time I call it at 4:30 am it rings like its on. But he still dont answer. He calls me right back and says im at the motel around the corner wanna come over here. I was stunned and obviouly believed he had been there with someone all evening and wanted to check it out. I didnt rush over I was taking my time. He kept calling and calling so I finally went there and the room appeared to me fresh like he may have just arrived. He tells me to sit down and I sit at the table not the bed. He was like why you over there? My gut was just screaming something aint right. But he charmed me over to the bed and starts kissing me. Anyway since I caught him there tonight with this girl I believe he had been there that night as well with her. All night. And then with me. I am so upset right now. I have never cheated and this is just so degrading to me. That he was just totally playing me the whole time. How come some men are just straight heartless?
Enema Posted November 12, 2006 Posted November 12, 2006 Because you let him. He gave you all the signs of being an ******* from day 1 and you kept coming back for more.
Outcast Posted November 12, 2006 Posted November 12, 2006 The lesson is if you see red flags RUN. Are you going to ditch him now or are you going to keep going back to someone you have been warned against and that you yourself knew was bad news and then keep coming back here and complaining about him? If so, you need to ask yourself why you would deliberately take such an unwise course of action. Are you desperate for male companionship to the point where you ignore your own instincts? If so, please, please seek help.
whichwayisup Posted November 12, 2006 Posted November 12, 2006 Yuk! I'm sorry that he hurt you, but now you really "know" who he is by his actions, not by what he says, completely dump his butt, ignore him and never see/talk to him again. He isn't worthy of your time, your energy or ANY of your thoughts!
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