budd98 Posted November 11, 2006 Posted November 11, 2006 My g/f and I broke up last night. The night before I had taken her out on a fancy date and we both laughed and looked so much in love. Granted we have had some rough times in our 2 year relationship, but we always stayed together. She is a VERY stubborn person and admits to it and she also has a temper problem. Anyways, I packed all of my stuff out her place and loaded into my car. She told me I could keep it there until I had somewhere to put everything, but I took it all out. When I got the last of my stuff whe was standing at the door and said "I think you should go now." I was in tears and she wouldn't make eye contact with me. I asked her why she couldn't and she wouldn't respond. I could tell she was tearing up also. She doesn't have a lot of money so I pushed a hundred into her pocket and told her to get some groceries and I left. That night she told me this was break-up for good. While I was driving home she texted me saying "no matter what you think, I didn't do this cause I hate you." I just responded by saying that I just hope she can be happy and she said she wanted me to be happy too. So now I am left heart broken and confused. How can we have so much fun and seem so in love one night and then the next it is over? Why was it so hard for her to look at me when I left? Is there anything I can do to help the relationship, or is it really over as she said? We haven't communicated since last night, but I just want to be with her so bad. Could anyone offer me some advice to help me out??? thanks!
Pyro Posted November 11, 2006 Posted November 11, 2006 My g/f and I broke up last night. The night before I had taken her out on a fancy date and we both laughed and looked so much in love. Granted we have had some rough times in our 2 year relationship, but we always stayed together. She is a VERY stubborn person and admits to it and she also has a temper problem. Anyways, I packed all of my stuff out her place and loaded into my car. She told me I could keep it there until I had somewhere to put everything, but I took it all out. When I got the last of my stuff whe was standing at the door and said "I think you should go now." I was in tears and she wouldn't make eye contact with me. I asked her why she couldn't and she wouldn't respond. I could tell she was tearing up also. She doesn't have a lot of money so I pushed a hundred into her pocket and told her to get some groceries and I left. That night she told me this was break-up for good. While I was driving home she texted me saying "no matter what you think, I didn't do this cause I hate you." I just responded by saying that I just hope she can be happy and she said she wanted me to be happy too. So now I am left heart broken and confused. How can we have so much fun and seem so in love one night and then the next it is over? Why was it so hard for her to look at me when I left? Is there anything I can do to help the relationship, or is it really over as she said? We haven't communicated since last night, but I just want to be with her so bad. Could anyone offer me some advice to help me out??? thanks! I'm sorry for what you are going through. I know how painful a breakup can really be. At this point, give her some space to ler her collect her thoughts. Maybe in a few days she will realize that she made a mistake, but don't your hopes up just yet. She probably did not make eye contact because it was hard enough for her to break it off with you and had she looked into your eyes, it would have made it just that much more difficult. This breakup may have been for the better, but obviously there is no way to know that except through time. Take it one day at a time. As each day goes by, the pain will become less. Try and keep yourself and your mind occupied. Take care.
Guest Posted November 11, 2006 Posted November 11, 2006 bad move taking all your things. That really hurt her and if you did not want to break up with her you pretty much sealed the deal when you did that. Had you left your things there you may have been able to come back in a few days and work it out. I would call her up and totally apologize for having taken all your things. Tell her it was a mistake and you are sorry to have hurt her like that. Then if you really do not want to lose her, tell her you love her and will give her whatever space she needs. If she wants you to move back with her all she needs to do is tell you and you will come back. It is up to her. But only tell her this if you mean it. Much aloha xoomarang
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