andy_whitewater Posted November 11, 2006 Posted November 11, 2006 heya, Long story short my ex girlfriend (of four years) whom I loved dearly left me about 5 months ago (for a guy she just met at uni - no idea if they actually started dating though) and I haven't seen her since then. I think about her a lot, but was definitely getting on with my life (i'm now 21 and in my last year of uni). Then yesterday out of the blue she walked into the shop I work in to come and have a chat. I was totally thrown by it - she said how different I looked, in a good way, and that she worries about me. She then looked like she was about to cry when I asked her how things were. I decided not to ask if she was going out with this new guy (because I thought - do i really want to know?) She then had to head off to meet up with her mum who she had taken shopping Shes off to India over xmas for a month and then in March shes going away to China for 6 months. My plan was not to see her til she came back from china but after seeing her yesterday I feel like there is a lot I want to talk to her about. Only thing is, I'm not sure whether to go ahead and break the contact on my side and give her a call/text. Should I find out if shes going out with this other guy and then act accordingly (i.e. if she is with him, then I stay away from her and don't make contact, but if shes not then I say hey). I figured if she is going out with him then I should leave them too it and not get involved (too much hurt for her, him and me). Anyone have any ideas what to do? many thanks xx
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