JMLbean Posted November 11, 2006 Posted November 11, 2006 Any advice on knowing if the guy is the AMAZING ONE you should be with? Is it always a gamble?
alphamale Posted November 11, 2006 Posted November 11, 2006 Is it always a gamble? life is a gamble sister!
Walk Posted November 11, 2006 Posted November 11, 2006 No, no... You can tell. Just ask to see his bank account statement.
magichands Posted November 11, 2006 Posted November 11, 2006 No, no... You can tell. Just ask to see his bank account statement. You forgot the cute buns. No amount of money can compensate for cute buns.
dropdeadlegs Posted November 11, 2006 Posted November 11, 2006 Sure it's a gamble. I believe the younger you are the higher the gamble. The reason follows. The older you get the less likely you are to gamble in the ways of love. You have set ways because you are able to take care of yourself. Many early "loves" are dependant on what gains that love brings to you and your future. As time goes on, you are not looking for "add ons", or "gains", so much as looking for "enhancements" and that is where one can truly experience love in it's most basic/maybe more complex form. Love is not about what one can do for another, but what it brings to one's personal well being/happiness. That sounds selfish, and true love is anything BUT selfish. It's more about WANTING to bring well being/happiness to another as much as for yourself. It's equalateral. That sounds simple, but it is very complicated.
ddnnee Posted November 11, 2006 Posted November 11, 2006 i am buying the bank account theory over the equalateral one.
dropdeadlegs Posted November 11, 2006 Posted November 11, 2006 i am buying the bank account theory over the equalateral one. Since I used the word "equalateral" I assume you are speaking to me. I may be in the minority, but bank account has nothing to do with love. I would much rather be rich in love and poor in the bank. Enough to pay the bills is okay with me,
magichands Posted November 11, 2006 Posted November 11, 2006 , but bank account has nothing to do with love. I would much rather be rich in love and poor in the bank. That's what I like to hear. Make no compromises.
Walk Posted November 11, 2006 Posted November 11, 2006 I may be in the minority, but bank account has nothing to do with love. I would much rather be rich in love and poor in the bank. Hope you didn't really take my post above as serious. I really believe that if you want to find "The One", then you have to define what characteristics, morals, thought processes, ideals, etc.. that your magical "one" would posses. But each individual person has to do that for their own life. Based on their experiences, their past, their thoughts, where they see their future, and their individual likes/dislikes in life. That and I don't believe in "The One". That's kind of fatalistic outlook. What if "The One" lives in another country and you never meet him? Then your S.O.L.
dropdeadlegs Posted November 11, 2006 Posted November 11, 2006 Hope you didn't really take my post above as serious. Oops, I did take it seriously! But I'm straight now:laugh: That and I don't believe in "The One". That's kind of fatalistic outlook. What if "The One" lives in another country and you never meet him? Then your S.O.L. I tend to agree with this point. I believe more in "The One" for now. That whole "happily ever after" is a nice idea, but I don't believe in fairy tales anymore. What if "The One" died, would I have to be alone forever? No S.O.L. future for me, I'll find another "The One"
Green Posted November 11, 2006 Posted November 11, 2006 I say to find the one you have to keep an open mind and an open heart...
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