maggiemae0923 Posted November 10, 2006 Posted November 10, 2006 i still have crazy strong feelings for my ex. one night, i ended up getting completely wasted, blacked out, and slept with his best friend, who i've hooked up with (but not slept with) awhile back...completely intoxicated. i haven't been able to eat, sleep, go to class... i'm a mess. he knows about what happened, but it meant nothing to me. i don't even remember it. i know it was a mistake... but i don't want to lose him for good. have i?
Spinderella Posted November 12, 2006 Posted November 12, 2006 You would need to give a lot more details of the relationship. Nobody can know the answer to your question. I would say, it wouldnt matter too much what you did if you had already lost him. On the other hand, if his feelings for you are still strong, then you still have a chance. Tell him that you were drowning your sorrows and wasted ad that it meant nothing to you. Tell him you still love him and only him. Then leave it with him, and do nothing else. Don't get into the position of begging for forgiveness, if he loves you, and has compassion, then saying you are truly sorry once, and explaining the situation, including answering any questions he has, is all you need to do. Of course all of this depends upon the circumstances of the relationship and break up.
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