Guest Posted November 10, 2006 Share Posted November 10, 2006 My boyfriend of four months is fantastic and we are still in the 'honeymoon' phase of our relationship. However I have reservations about getting into a serious long term relationship with him because I suspect he might be the type of guy who falls in love easily and too fast. He has been in at least four serious relationships (we're both 25) and emotionally involved with two other girls. I don't think he has been single for an extended period of time, he usually meets the next girl within six months after a break up. His longest relationship was about a year and a half. I have been in two serious relationships that didn't last long, and have been mostly single. Next June I will be taking a work posting in another country and we will be facing a separation of about fourteen months. While I don't think he would actively cheat on me, I feel that it is highly likely that he would meet a new girl, think "oh great a new friend I can hang out with", talk to her lots, and end up being attracted to her. He is the type of guy who communicates with women very easily, they feel safe with him and love hanging out with him. He is also still good friends with three of his exes and extremely close to one of them. Most of his good friends are female and he has been involved with one of them before. I believe sincerely that he loves me and thinks that I am special. He has never cheated on a gf before to my knowledge. Also I know it is unfair to judge him on being affectionate and good with women. But I can't shake the feeling that he is the type who might become attracted to more than one woman and end up torn between me and her, especially if we're doing long distance. He is driven by his emotions and it's not something he can help. This will always be a problem and I don't know what to do. Any advice would be appreciated! Link to post Share on other sites
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