JMLbean Posted November 10, 2006 Posted November 10, 2006 Hi, One of my classmates and I have been flirting since school started this semester. We are both graduate students and our studios are at opposite ends of the building, so we go out of our way to see each other and talk. Tonight, I took my class to the museum and he said that he would meet me there and did. We talked about all the art and the fashion show and joked alot about what we would wear and not wear. When we left he held my hand while I jumped over a puddle of water. This GUY HAS A GIRLFRIEND! Is he nice or does he like me? What do I do? I question my appearance because I'm over weight. And I question if people are just nice to me because I'm southern and living in a big northern city. I question if I'm just miss reading his politeness. He and his girlfriend have be dating for 5 years and have been in long distance mode for the last year and a half. However, he did spend the summer with her and he may just miss her and is looking for affection. I'm not sure. Please send advice. Thanks -XO
whichwayisup Posted November 10, 2006 Posted November 10, 2006 I think he's being nice and is just a friend. Don't read anything into it. When we left he held my hand while I jumped over a puddle of water. Definately don't read into that...He did something nice, any friend would do for someone else. Also, don't become the OW (Other woman) in his life... If you feel he's being "too" nice or being affectionate (as in touching you too much, hugging/cuddling you) then tell him that's not cool to do. Can you handle a platonic friendship with him? Even if you do "like" him more than you should? IF so, then you have to keep things on the straight and narrow......If not, then you need to back off and not hang out with him alot.
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