daboywonder2002 Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 ok me and my ex are pretty much back together. not sure if anyone remembers. but this was a pregnant girl i was dating but the child wasnt mines. (dont worry, she didnt cheat). she was already pregnant when we met. she just didnt know. anyways, to make a long story short. she pretty much became distant once the kid was born. dumped me and broke my heart. so now 7 months later. she comes back. i told her how i was upset and how it wasnt right what she did. but im a forgiving person. she says that she didnt know what she wanted and didnt know if she belonged. but now she knows what she wants and knows that she wants me. she tells me that she never stopped loving me and loves me very much. i still love her and want to be with her. i dont want to keep playing games. im trying to understand whats wrong with me. do i have trust issues? am i just afraid of getting hurt again? or do i just think that maybe im not capable of a female actually loving me. when tracy and i are together and things are great. im loving it. im feeling her a lot. im loving her. but if i dont talk to her or she doesnt call me. or answer her phone. then im thinking oh geez, here we go again. why am i so worried that she is gonna leave me? why do i have these issues?? its like im preparing to get heartbroken again.
Guest Posted November 10, 2006 Posted November 10, 2006 ok me and my ex are pretty much back together. not sure if anyone remembers. but this was a pregnant girl i was dating but the child wasnt mines. (dont worry, she didnt cheat). she was already pregnant when we met. she just didnt know. anyways, to make a long story short. she pretty much became distant once the kid was born. dumped me and broke my heart. so now 7 months later. she comes back. i told her how i was upset and how it wasnt right what she did. but im a forgiving person. she says that she didnt know what she wanted and didnt know if she belonged. but now she knows what she wants and knows that she wants me. she tells me that she never stopped loving me and loves me very much. i still love her and want to be with her. i dont want to keep playing games. im trying to understand whats wrong with me. do i have trust issues? am i just afraid of getting hurt again? or do i just think that maybe im not capable of a female actually loving me. when tracy and i are together and things are great. im loving it. im feeling her a lot. im loving her. but if i dont talk to her or she doesnt call me. or answer her phone. then im thinking oh geez, here we go again. why am i so worried that she is gonna leave me? why do i have these issues?? its like im preparing to get heartbroken again.[/QUO YOU HAVE TO KNOW THAT A WOMENS BODY CHANGE AFTER GIVING BIRTH AND THAT SHE WAS PROBABLY GOING THOUGH POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION. DO NOT TAKE IT PERSONAL I AM SURE SHE PROBABLY DOES NOT KNOW WHAT SHE IS GOING THROUGH EITHER. READ ON IT AND MAYBE THIS COULD BE THE REASON. GOOD LUCK
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