courtiebelle02 Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 I'm seeing this guy and I'm not sure if I'm just a booty call or not. He seems to like me when we're together. We do other stuff than just have sex, but it seems he only wants to see me on HIS terms. The thing is, I think he just may not be ready for a relationship because he just got out of one not long ago. How do I let him know that I'm not ok with just being a booty call? I think I may have given him the impression that I'm ok with it. I just need to know how to talk to him about this without freakin him out or scaring him off. I still want to see him, I just want him to know that, though I'm not asking him for a relationship, I'd like to know that I'm worth more than just sex. How do I do this?
norajane Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 If you are feeling like a booty call, listen to your instincts! You can approach this two ways. Either start asking him out on YOUR terms - suggest things that you'd like to do together, ask him to go out with you on specific dates, invite him into the kind of relationship you want to have. Or, you can be direct and ask him what kind of relationship he wants to have with you, because you're starting to get the impression that you're just a booty call.
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