gordon_gc Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 A few weeks back, I met a girl at a friend's party. She is actually the one who came to me. Description ? nice girl (nothing that would suggest a promiscuious behavior)... The last few months, I've been seeing girls on one night stand basis and for once, I seriously thought this could work and be a bit more serious than usual. I took her number, got in touch via text messages the next few days then nothing, she suddenly stopped contacts. At this point, I felt really dissapointed and gave it a last shot by text messaging to tell her I really would have loved to see her again. A few days later, she got back to me (no credits so far) and suggested to catch up. I agreed and since then, nothing. Today, I called but no answer. I don't like to jump to conclusion to why or why not a person stop contacting someone else but don't really know what to think It's like everytime i meet a nice girl, it doesnt lead to anything good. What should I do ? What would u do ? (try one last time, give up, etc..)
DanielMadr Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 A few weeks back, I met a girl at a friend's party. She is actually the one who came to me. Description ? nice girl (nothing that would suggest a promiscuious behavior)... The last few months, I've been seeing girls on one night stand basis and for once, I seriously thought this could work and be a bit more serious than usual. I took her number, got in touch via text messages the next few days then nothing, she suddenly stopped contacts. At this point, I felt really dissapointed and gave it a last shot by text messaging to tell her I really would have loved to see her again. A few days later, she got back to me (no credits so far) and suggested to catch up. I agreed and since then, nothing. Today, I called but no answer. I don't like to jump to conclusion to why or why not a person stop contacting someone else but don't really know what to think It's like everytime i meet a nice girl, it doesnt lead to anything good. What should I do ? What would u do ? (try one last time, give up, etc..) She is not interested in you. She has someone better in scope or you just gave bad vibes. Maybe her girlfriends were jealous and talked bad about you. Maybe she thinks you are jerk or she thinks you are a wussy or player. Doesnt really matter at this point. I wouldnt text her. Just ask her for date. If she refuses or flakes....NEXT. Life is short. Dont have time for games or silly pursuing. I take it she is not interested enough or she has some problem...doesnt matter. There is plenty of girls.
MadDog Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 First off, to ask what a girl is thinking is pointless. Girls have no logic in their behavior. You're basically dealing with completely random behavior for the most part. The only rule that holds true is that the better looking you are and the cooler your job/more money you make, the more girls you'll get. As for your situation, is it a girl you had a one night stand with or some girl you're trying to ask out? Don't text--it's for sissies. Be a man and ask her out in person or at least call her. Putting yourself on the line is a necessity for a guy if he wants to have any success with the ladies. MD
rina_r Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 Girls have no logic in their behavior. MD Some. Neither do some guys.
MadDog Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 Some. Neither do some guys. I'd say lots of girls vs some guys. All my actions are 100% driven by logic. I've yet to meet a girl like that. MD
blind_otter Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 First off, to ask what a girl is thinking is pointless. Girls have no logic in their behavior. You're basically dealing with completely random behavior for the most part. The only rule that holds true is that the better looking you are and the cooler your job/more money you make, the more girls you'll get.{/quote] As a woman, I agree. All women are crazy, emotionally random, and completely inconsistent. Then again, IME men are like that, too, in their early-mid 20s. That said, OP -- I think you struck out with this one. Dude, you have to be more aggressive to seal the deal. Sit back and wait for the chick to call you and you'll be waiting the rest of your life. Be aggressive. Be specific. Ask her out to do something specific at a specific day and time. Vague men don't get dates. It's a fact.
Ripples Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 I'd say lots of girls vs some guys. All my actions are 100% driven by logic. I've yet to meet a girl like that. MD And using logic must always be the right way to go about things. <nods>
monkey00 Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 She's a flake, forget about it and move on. If she was interested this wouldnt happen.
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