Lauriebell82 Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 i am in sort of a ld relationship with my bf of 3 months. i go to graduate school an hour 1/2 away and we visit every weekend, either i go there or he comes to visit me. he is a wonderful guy and i really love him but im very insecure about relationships because i got very hurt in my last relationship. i get shaky and paranoid that everytime me and my bf have a fight he is going to break up with me. he knows i'm insecure a little bit although i try not to let on to it too much. what can i do to become more secure? how can i get these feelings to go away? i really dont want to lose him but i'm scared i'm going to do something to drive him away from me.
hersheykiss Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 Insecurity does generally tend to be a turn-off, but it is definitely understandable. If you really feel that he loves you, you probably have nothing to worry about. It's hard to not be affected by past experiences, but the best thing to do is let go of them. After all, he wasn't the one who hurt you.
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