Guest Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 Ok, So I heard that they are going to Vegas this weekend to get married. I know I shouldn't care if he screws up his life. But, I do. I have been holding on to the hope that he loved me and was going to realize this and come back to me. Well, that's not happening. Everyone at work is saying that they think she is pregnant. I have thought that since he left me. Woman's intuition, you know. My intuition is also telling me it's not his. So, why would he step up to the plate for another man's baby? Ok, here is an update. I text messaged him and told him I heard he was having a baby and congratulations on the baby and wedding. He texted back that she was not pregnant and that they are getting married because they are "crazy in love with each other". Wow, that's funny cuz just a few weeks ago, he was telling me he felt that way about me. And he said he felt bad because she had to deal with all his feelings over breaking up with me. Ok, so, he's crazy. He said he would put a restraining order against me if I don't leave him alone. It was a text message. Can he do that? Seems a little extreme!
a4a Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 well just leave him alone, then it won't matter will it.
Walk Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 I'm not going to sugar coat this... You are thinking crazy. You have an intuition that she's pregnant? From another guy no less. You WANT her to be pregnant from another guy in the hopes that your ex won't marry her, won't love her, and won't want to be with her. I'm not saying you're crazy... but you aren't thinking rationally about this. You say you love your ex. Then be happy for him. Stop trying to intrude on his life. Respect his wishes. Don't contact him. For whatever reason it didn't work between you two... accept it. You could be putting all this energy into creating a better life for yourself. I don't understand why you would want him back. I would have no belief that he has even the faintest clue what love really is. I wouldn't trust him anymore. I would expect him to duck and run the second things got difficult or uncomfortable for him. And even if he did come back, he'll just pull the same stunt again because he has no idea what love is, nor any desire to put forth the effort to make it work. Chances are, he'll be divorced in a year anyway... He thinks he's in love... as soon as those lust chemicals wear off, he'll think he's out of love, and he'll be looking for a new girl so he can feel those endorphins again. The chemical high. You just happened to get in his path of destruction. Why you would want to place yourself back in that path is beyond me.
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