punk666 Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 hey, i have been going out with my girlfriend for a month now and i feel like there is a space between us and that we are not comfortable with each other. My buddies that i hang around with know her better than i do. When we hang out, i can tell she is more interested in them than myself. It makes me mad seeing her beeing open and not shy with them, but when she is with me and we are alone, she never really opens up to me. I can't stand it anymore and i feel like i want to leave her but if i do i will just hurt myself more. Today i was walking down the hall and my buddy was ahead of me and i saw her smile at him but when i walked by, it was like i was invisable to her. I don't really know what is happening but i know that i don't feel comfortable at this point. If you guys can give me some tips on how i can making her feel more comfortable around me i would appreciate it. If there is something i am doing wrong please help me, i really don't want to loose her. THANKS...
Poetry In Motion Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 Wow bro i just went through the same thing....When we hang out, i can tell she is more interested in them than myself. It makes me mad seeing her beeing open and not shy with them, The only thing i can tell you is that she has known them longer and they are friends....Dont get all jealous like i did... Just keep trying to love her and see what happends and if she doesnt open up then maybe she isnt right for you.... I tottlay understand how you feel about her but if she is uncomfortable then its time to just let her know about it...Dont YELL just nicely tell her how you feel...then if she doesnt respond or keeps doing it then you might just need to find some1 who want s to give you the affection you need.... I tottally pushed my ex away cause of my insecurites over that....And i most definitly love her....But now she doesnt want to get back cause of my insecurities..
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