Guest Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 Well just got into hischool, thought i would get a fresh start... I've been trying to hang out with the "preps/popular" people in my school. They've accepted me and ya know we eat lunch together and stuff. However, i am not able to talk to them...because we dont have the same intrests. They like to talk about the partys they've been going to, the girls they've met, and so on, none of which i've done. I'd love to talk about those things...it's just that i dont get invited to partys and stuff! It might have something to do with my race, but i dont really think so...i'm not american, But i've seen many other people that aren't american suceed, and become one of the popular people. I just need to be able to talk to the people that i want to be friends with. I dont know what to say, or when to say what! I am silent as can be! And as for the girls...I dont get none! It might have to do with my looks a little bit, but i can overcome that. I have noticed that the girls date people within their "groups". (prep girls date prep guys, skater girls date skater guys, etc...) I dont belong to any of these groups, which literally means no girls! So once i become "real" friends with people within these groups then i would be able to talk to the preppy girls and get them . All in all though I just want to become "real" friends with the preps. Like friends that actually hang out on the weekends and stuff like that, not just friends that talk to each other at school. Any help?
molimo140 Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 The only advice that i can really offer here is to be a generally friendly person. Smile, don't act arrogantly, and above all be yourself. The worst way to gain friends is by being false. I have a lot of people that I talk to regularly, but only a handful that I'd actually call my friends.
ddnnee Posted November 11, 2006 Posted November 11, 2006 you think its bad now? wait till later in college. with your schedules shifting every 5 months, you may never see the same perosn in your classes. I too have no friends and no girls. my goal is to get filthy rich and buy my girls.
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